Philippine Love Forum - Love Quotes, Love Quotes Tagalog, Pick Up Lines Tagalog, Love Problems, Love Advice, Love Stories, Courtship and Dating Guides
October 20, 2017, 10:27:25 PM *
Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.

Login with username, password and session length
 
   Home   Help Login Register  
Pages: [1]   Go Down
  Print  
Author Topic: what to do... hindi ako kayang ipagmalaki sa family niya..  (Read 5228 times)
elijah
Newbie
*

Charisma Level 0
Offline Offline

Posts: 10


« on: April 27, 2015, 12:13:06 AM »


hi guyz..

may gusto akong isang girl.. lumalim na yung feelings ko sa kanya,then siya medyo nahahalata ko na meron na ring feelings sakin... then inopen ko yung bout samin kung maglelevel up ba to lovers or what.. ayun sabi niya... "hindi kita kayang ipagmalaki sa family ko." ang reason is yung age gap namin,ka edad ko daw kasi yung ate niya... i'm 22 and sh'es 18. halos nagmakaawa na ko sa kanya to try na kausapin yung parent niya bout sa age namin.. pero ayaw niya.. and now tinapos ko na yung samin.. sorry siya ng sorry tapos sabi ko "wala na naman na akong magagawa" ang sabi niya "pero..." hindi ko alam kung anu meaning ng "pero..' niya.. anu ba dapat ko gawin? tanggapin ko na lang na nasa "friendzoned" ako? or ipaglaban ko pa din.. super depress ako.. thanks sa mag aadvice.. Smiley
Logged
Philippine Love Forum - Love Quotes, Love Quotes Tagalog, Pick Up Lines Tagalog, Love Problems, Love Advice, Love Stories, Courtship and Dating Guides
« on: April 27, 2015, 12:13:06 AM »

 Logged
Ikawalu
PLF Junior
*****

Charisma Level 6
Offline Offline

Posts: 2344


Quentin T@rantado


« Reply #1 on: April 27, 2015, 12:52:40 PM »


age gap? that's ridiculous....

yung partner ko mas bata pa sa bunsong kapatid ko(and mas malaki pa sa age gap nyo) wala namang problem na age gap. mas issue pa sa family nya na pareho kaming panganay. hehehe.


tingin ko may ibang dahilan na hindi sinasabi sayo... baka may anak sa iba,  Grin Grin Grin
Logged

"Abortion is wrong. God doesn't approve of ending a life just because a person has regrets about how things turned out." - Genesis 6:6-7

http://i877.photobucket.com/albums/ab334/james_o22/jamesorig.jpg
elijah
Newbie
*

Charisma Level 0
Offline Offline

Posts: 10


« Reply #2 on: April 27, 2015, 01:35:36 PM »


buti pa po kayo..hehe... yun nga po ang big deal sa kanya ng age namin.. and naisip ko din yun na may iba pang dahilan kaya ganun.. pero ayaw niya talaga... nag uusap kami ngayon pero ang cold ko.. Lol... anw.. thanks po sa advice ah~ .. Godbless po..
Logged
Ikawalu
PLF Junior
*****

Charisma Level 6
Offline Offline

Posts: 2344


Quentin T@rantado


« Reply #3 on: April 27, 2015, 01:49:42 PM »


Rian Ramos(16), DJ Mo Twister(32) - 16yrs
Ralph Recto at Vilma Santos - 20yrs
Ramon Revilla - 10-50yrs  Grin Grin Grin
Logged

"Abortion is wrong. God doesn't approve of ending a life just because a person has regrets about how things turned out." - Genesis 6:6-7

http://i877.photobucket.com/albums/ab334/james_o22/jamesorig.jpg
Mommy Shadow
Newbie
*

Charisma Level 0
Offline Offline

Posts: 6


« Reply #4 on: May 28, 2015, 12:12:01 AM »


You're 22 and she is 18, di naman sobrang laki ang agwat ... I guess meron syang ibang dahilan kaya binigyan ka na lang nya ng "age gap" alibi .... may mga girls na minsan akala nila ay in love na sila kay guy pero hindi naman pala kaya para makaiwas na masabihan na "paasa" ay gumagawa na lang ng alibi o dahilan kung saan isinasangkalan ang parents ... Wink

Try to accept na lang na na-friendzone ka ... yung feeling mo na superdepressed ka ay lilipas din ... syempre, it hurts na malaman ang 22o but at least nalaman mo agad ....  wala kang dapat na ipaglaban kaya wag mo ng isipin na ipaglaban pa ang feelings mo ... go out with your friends and relax ka lang .... may darating pang iba na di sayo mangdedeadma!
Logged
chobibo
Love Adviser
PLF Senior
*****

Charisma Level 64
Offline Offline

Posts: 3271


Est. 1986


« Reply #5 on: May 28, 2015, 02:02:54 PM »


i'm 22 and sh'es 18. halos nagmakaawa na ko sa kanya to try na kausapin yung parent niya bout sa age namin.. pero ayaw niya.. and now tinapos ko na yung samin.. sorry siya ng sorry tapos sabi ko "wala na naman na akong magagawa" ang sabi niya "pero..." hindi ko alam kung anu meaning ng "pero..' niya..


i think..you should have waited for her. that's what she might meant to tell you indirectly like only if you have waited for a bit or something then you guys could of found a way out.

kasi age gap or age differences is all about time frames. minsan kasi we tend to rush love. parang sa generation natin ngaun, everything is instant parang noodles or even sa fastfood, gusto natin madalian kasi gusto natin ganito o ganyan. principle behind is that, we don't create love. instead, love blooms on its own like a flower that blooms in its own sweet time. in short, kapag ready na, love will grow and when we say grow, it is dynamic and progressive at hindi yun biglaan.

in your case, you had choices that you could of considered. wait, friendzone, fight for it or call it quits. it was all up to you man kahit sabihin na natin na mas pipiliin niya ang parents niya over you. but then again, sabi mo nga tinapos mo na yung sa inyo and this is just my opinion of her. di ko din naman alam ang takbo ng utak niya. i can only help you see things beyond age gap but i can't tell you what to do.
Logged

tayo'y magpaikot-ikot Smiley
elijah
Newbie
*

Charisma Level 0
Offline Offline

Posts: 10


« Reply #6 on: July 01, 2015, 11:41:24 PM »


guyz thank you.. thank you sa advices...

ok kami ngayon, nag uusap na ulit kami tulad nung dati.. nag sorry siya sakin and sabi niya ngayon na hindi pa daw siya ready pero huwag daw ako masyado aasa .. inaccept ko yun kahit mahirap sakin.. sabi ko naman sa kanya na maghihintay ako kahit na alam ko mali... inaccept din niya yun.. ok kami ngayon.. minsan siya una nag ppm sakin... anw thank you guyz sa advices... thank you talaga... siguro in the end hindi na rin mag wowork tong samin...

thanks guyz.. Godbless..
Logged
yiiane
Sr. Member
*****

Charisma Level 7
Offline Offline

Gender: Female
Posts: 334


doomed


« Reply #7 on: July 01, 2015, 11:51:12 PM »


guyz thank you.. thank you sa advices...

ok kami ngayon, nag uusap na ulit kami tulad nung dati.. nag sorry siya sakin and sabi niya ngayon na hindi pa daw siya ready pero huwag daw ako masyado aasa .. inaccept ko yun kahit mahirap sakin.. sabi ko naman sa kanya na maghihintay ako kahit na alam ko mali... inaccept din niya yun.. ok kami ngayon.. minsan siya una nag ppm sakin... anw thank you guyz sa advices... thank you talaga... siguro in the end hindi na rin mag wowork tong samin...

thanks guyz.. Godbless..


im so sorry to hear that.... >.<
i so much feel for you..

hayaan mo, if you lost something that valuable.. you'll find someone greater.
Logged

"泣いて暮らすも一緒、笑って暮らすも一緒"

Naite kurasu mo issho, waratte kurasu mo issho.

It is the same life whether we spend it crying or laughing.
Textmenow
Pledgee
**

Charisma Level 0
Offline Offline

Posts: 33


« Reply #8 on: August 04, 2017, 05:44:59 PM »


Baka strict ang parents niya
Logged
Philippine Love Forum - Love Quotes, Love Quotes Tagalog, Pick Up Lines Tagalog, Love Problems, Love Advice, Love Stories, Courtship and Dating Guides
   

 Logged
Pages: [1]   Go Up
  Print  
 
Jump to:  

Privacy Policy: Privacy Policy Email: pinoyloveforum@yahoo.com

Powered by MySQL Powered by PHP Powered by SMF 1.1.18 | SMF © 2013, Simple Machines Valid XHTML 1.0! Valid CSS!