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« on: February 27, 2017, 07:38:04 PM »


(long story guys) para may idea kayo

So i've been courting this girl for 7 years.
Yeah, 7 years.. it all started way back in college hanggang ngyn.
Ok naman kame ng family nya, they all like me, boto sila sa akin. Wala syang iba, we act like any couples do except sa kissing part, officially dating kame, hindi sya nag eentertain ng iba, todo effort ako for 5 years. Yung 2 years nasa ibang bansa sya pero effort pa din ako,

Ito yng situation,
After 5 years (out of 7years yan) of courting nag ask na ako, anu ba talaga status namen, she said na wala din sense na sagutin nya ako kasi sa tingin ng lahat kame na, so assuming na ako na kame.. pero sinabe nya hindi tayo pero parang tayo, i mean wtf dba.. she said na i prioritize daw namen yung future namen dalawa while supporting each other,. So inintindi ko na naman.. after a year she decided na mag iibang bansa sya, ok lang naman sa akin, bago sya umalis she said na she will wait for me dun. After nun, ok pa kame, medyo madalang kame mag usap dahil busy sa work, then one time tinanung nya ako.. why are you waiting? Sinabe ko yng reason of course, then sinabe nya sa akin, unusual daw yng pag wait ko, ang dating kasi sa akin parang gusto na ba nya ako mag give up?
Need advice..
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« Reply #1 on: February 28, 2017, 04:59:16 PM »


saan na daw patungo ang status niyo after nya malaman na unusual yung waiting mo?
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« Reply #2 on: March 01, 2017, 09:43:07 AM »


saan na daw patungo ang status niyo after nya malaman na unusual yung waiting mo?


Actually yan ang hindi ko pa natatanung.. medyo magulo nga e.. sya una nag sabe sa akin na she wilm for me dun sa abroad then alk of a sudden akk yung tinanung ng ganun Sad
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« Reply #3 on: March 01, 2017, 06:03:44 PM »


Actually yan ang hindi ko pa natatanung.. medyo magulo nga e.. sya una nag sabe sa akin na she wilm for me dun sa abroad then alk of a sudden akk yung tinanung ng ganun Sad


naniniwala ako na if you really love the person, you would do anything for that person. walang masama sa maghintay, but you also have to realize that you shouldn't be just passive through waiting. you gotta be passive-aggressive. meaning, passive as waiting and at the same time aggressive in a way that you are doing something to make it happen. you gotta make it happen and nobody else would make it for you. this must be a reminder for you that you should also be doing something habang naghihintay ka sa kanya.
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« Reply #4 on: March 02, 2017, 07:42:08 AM »


Yup, may kasabihan nga diba, its not the wait thats important but what you do while waiting.. pero na stress pa din ako.. haha.. thanks sa advice
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« Reply #5 on: March 06, 2017, 02:44:21 PM »


no worries man
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« Reply #6 on: May 23, 2017, 06:36:36 PM »


para sakin lang ah. siguraduhin mo munang may patutunguhan yung paghihintay kasi mahirap maghintay sa wala kasi ikaw lang din yung masasaktan. minsan kasi umaasa tayo sa isang bagay na gustonggusto natin kahit na andun na lahat ng red flags di natin iniintndi kasi gustong gusto natin yung tao. d naman ako against sa paghihintay mo napagdaanan ko na din kasi yan although babae ako umasa ako sa isang lalaki. pero kahit masakit kailangan kong mauntog at marealize na hindi ko deserve yung ganto na hindi mo alam kung anong position mo sa isang tao inisip ko na deserve kong makahanap ng taongmahal ko at mahal din ako. at yun dininig naman ni God yung hiling ko iniwasan ko ung taong nagpaasa sakin at nakilala ko yung taong gustong gutso ko at mahal na mahal din ako. hindi ba masmasarap yung ganun. isipin mo yung bagay na deserving para sayo. masarap yung relasyon na alam mong mahal ka din ng taong mahal mo. opinion ko lang naman yun. nasasayo padin yung disisyon kung anong tama para sa sarili mo.XD
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