I have a crush on my best friend

[mobby]

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crush ko yung best friend ko pero takot ako na sabihin ko sa kanya ang aking nararamdaman.

[Jessie Chua]

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wala naman siguro masama kung liligawan mo diba? pero consider mo din na baka masira friendship mo. ilang years mo na ba cya bestfriend?

[ertuu]

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Is your bestfriend still single?
If yes, do it.
Kung hindi, bahala ka na.  It would make him/her confused.

[p@nth♣r@]

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Crush lang ba yang naramdaman mo sa best mo o love na?
Kasi kung crush lang wag mo nalang siyang ligawan pero sabihin mo sa kanya na crush mo siya....

Para kasi sa akin noh, crush lang na feel mo sa kanya di ba? paano if niligawan mo siya tapos sasagutin ka niya kasi mahal ka niya saka naman dumating ung girl na mahal mo, di ba masasaktan mo lang best mo?

Saka mo na lang siya ligawan kung sigurado ka na sa feeling mo sa kanya, ung love na talaga hindi ung crush lang...

[brian_po]

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crush ko yung best friend ko pero takot ako na sabihin ko sa kanya ang aking nararamdaman.

kung single siya,, bakit ayaw mo pa mag propose?

[MiGz]

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love destroys friendship!!

kaya ayoko nga bang ma-inlab sa mga kaibigan ko..

[kikay]

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best mo naman sya, try to share your problem sa best mo baka matulungan ka nya

[jp]

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bakit ka natatakot...ok lang yan...maiintindihan ka naman siguro nya...^^

[ako si jaja]

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dati mahal q ang bestfriend q....at hnd q xa crush
ganun dn xa xken...
he loves me too much...
pero lumugar kme kng ano ang alam nmn n tama...
we promise to each other...
n bestfriend kme 4ever...
kaya minsan pag wala akong pera pinapadalan nia q...
pag xa nmn ang wala gpapadala rn ako sknya...
we trust each other  kc...
d q lam kng ilang taon n relationship nmen

[JYLLDS_DARL]

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ok lng pag crush pa!
paanu kng aabot sa LoVe na!
mahirap kasi pag bestfriend mo crush mo!
pag nalaman ng bestfriend mo na my crush u sa knya!
prng maiilang or what!
haisssssssstttt!
dyan nmn nagccmula ang love eh!
friend muna bago love...
iba kasi pag bestfriend na!
kilala nyo na ang isa't isa!

[el_mujer_engr]

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it's really hard to keep your feelings especially when that person you fall for is your friend -and worst, your bestfriend! I've been through this situation.. several times!

you really must weigh the situation, a lot of things to consider.. in my case, i am the girl kaya factor yun na i shouldn't make the first move di ba?.. but i don't know, i guess when you know the person very well, you can sense naman if he's also concern di ba?.. but ung "sense or feeling mo" is not enough. Dapat the person said the magic words..

i fell in love with this guy, i wouldnt say na best friend ko tlga sya.. but i dnt have other guy (straight)  friend na i tell everything about my life and whereabouts.. actually he's the bro of my bestfriend. we were textmates, sometimes we talk..  but not until last week, i told him about what i feel.. and this time, i didnt mind na im the girl.. haha! it didnt turned out well but im happy coz finally im free.. free in the sense of hoping and expecting, thinking that it's something but in reality it's not.. and never was..

i guess, deep within us, we know the answers to our questions.. if we will make a try or forever be quiet about what we feel.. we just deny it.. why? because we are more afraid of the change it may bring..

it took me years to finally confess my feelings for this guy, actually right from the start i could have said it but i refused to.. why did it take me this long? coz before i wasnt ready yet for the consequence.. and that is to be rejected and worst, our friendship will end too.. 

Sadly, i had to end out friendship.. though he didnt say namn ayaw na nya kong maging friend.. but i cant move on if ganun dba?.. in short, just be prepared for the consequence.. :-)

[JYLLDS_DARL]

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dpat talaga lagi taung handa kng anng mangyayari kinabukasan!

[BSPJ TSUKI]

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treasure your friendship and bow down na hndi ka maghanap ng iba... pero sabhin mo sa friend mo what you feel...
pwede kasi mangyari na ganito... if your friend knows what you feel, instead na ligawan mo xa, pwede nyong i-retain pagiging best nyo... best with an upper level... hndi BF/GF relation kundi frend lang... pero paghanda ka na... mag-propose ka na ng kasal agad sa knya, if feeling nya na hndi ka na nya kayang pakawalan pa... dba?

[ms.emotera229(member since may 31, 2009)]

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hehehhe...mahirap tlga pag maxiado ng close...may possibility na madvelop...

[carbenthomas]

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Don't be shy! Just run up to her and say hi and then ask her if she wants to sit with you at lunch or something. Do not be flirty though. You are aiming to get to know her as a friend for now, so act like it. If you can't come up with the courage to just walk up to her then pretend you are doing something for class that you need to talk to her for and then sit with her at breakfast or lunch and while you are doing the survey ask her a question about your relationship.