about a girl

[lovehatehero]

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i have this officemate whom i have been courting for so long. i gave her everything she asks and things she doesnt ask for as long as i know that it will make her smile. ilang beses na syang nagkaboyfriend at ako patuloy pa rin sa panliligaw. madalas umiiwas sya saken but if she needs something, she will come at me. she came from a poor family, she provides money for her family. she is nice at times naman kaso most of the time, she just keeps on hurting me then one day nainis na talaga ako at nakainom pa ako, so nasabe ko sa kanya na lumalapet lang sya if she needs something. she was offended, and she never spoke to me again. i said sorry so many times but my words wont reach her heart. i cried a lot pero she just ignores me, i dont know what to do anymore. i feel like im lost. i asked her na sana pwede pa kaming maging friends but she answered no. ang saket. if i could just turn back time, i will just keep all those harsh words inside of me.

[arjelynm18]

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cguro n misunderstood mo lng ung pagiging ganun nya.did u ask her ba if bakit most of the time masungit xa? malay mo lagi nman xang my problema at ganun lng tlga xa everytime n my prob xao my msamang nraramdaman,...   

[lovehatehero]

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i asked her and she said none. gusto kong mag move forward but i keep looking back, parang i want to be at least maging friends ulet with her. i sent her a letter and a gift, wala pa akong balita kung tinapon nya yun or what. thanks!

[nero]

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sa tingin ko kaya mo iwasan ung girl para makapag move on ka...

kaya mo yan...^^

[♥ JYLLDS_HarLyN ♥]

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abusado naman yun...pero ndi rin naman tama na insultuhin mo xia...hayaan mo nalang muna xia...nkapag sorry kna rin naman...
mas mabuting iwasan mo na rin muna xia para mkapag move on kna rin...

[tempgirl]

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she got offended? eh you just told her the truth na she only comes to you if she needs something pero pag wala she doesn't even acknowledge your existence.

she's paasa i should know because i'm a girl if she's really interested in you she wouldn't have several boyfriends while you were courting her dapat nung nagbreak sila nung bf niya the time na nililigawan mo siya eh di sana inentertain ka nya pero nagkaroon paren ng iba tapos you stayed.

don't be her doormat. clearly she isn't interested. just be thankful she's out of your life and she can't use you anymore.

save yourself the heartache because you're better off without her kung vinavalue ka nya as a friend? she wouldn't treat you that way...

[ynna]

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siguro iba lng pagkakaintindi mu...frangkahin mu kaya ung feeling mu sa kanya...

[lovehatehero]

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thanks sa mga nagreply.. yun na ang masama, lage kong nakikita sa office. gusto ko ng magresign.. ang hirap at ang saket na wala syang pakialam.. ginawa ko ang lahat kahit muka na kong tanga sa tingin ng mga tao, basta mapasaya ko sya.. tas gang ngayon, nasasaktan pa rin ako, ilang buwan na to pero wala pa rin.. =( alam ko namang wala talaga syang pagtingin pero bat antanga ko pa rin..? siguro dapat na akong magresign.. i always tell myself na pakita mo sa kanyang malakas ka pero i just cant. puro ako satsat.. =(

[Lady Lazarus]

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she got offended? eh you just told her the truth na she only comes to you if she needs something pero pag wala she doesn't even acknowledge your existence.

she's paasa i should know because i'm a girl if she's really interested in you she wouldn't have several boyfriends while you were courting her dapat nung nagbreak sila nung bf niya the time na nililigawan mo siya eh di sana inentertain ka nya pero nagkaroon paren ng iba tapos you stayed.

don't be her doormat. clearly she isn't interested. just be thankful she's out of your life and she can't use you anymore.

save yourself the heartache because you're better off without her kung vinavalue ka nya as a friend? she wouldn't treat you that way...

She's right. Although mahirap umiwas kasi same work office kayo, but it would make it easier to move on kung huwag ka na lalapit sa kanya.

Do yourself a favor and focus your attention on something or someone else. Involve yourself in a new hobby, meet new people with the same interests as you, strive for a promotion and work hard, plan a trip and learn about other cultures!

There are so many things that you can do to get your attention off her.

And the fact that you're the kind of guy who likes to spoil and make his love happy pretty much tells me that you will find someone again.

Good luck!

[khazle]

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let hergo!!! dont hurt yourself!!! ikaw lang mahihirapan

[lovehatehero]

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di ako sumuko, sensya, haha! we are friends na so ok na ako.. kahit sa friendzone na lang. at least mas makakaget over na ako since alam kong di na sya galet saken. =) thanks sa support pala.

[shYgirL2012]

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Ibang level ka.. hehehe.. may ganito pa palang lalaki nowadays.. saludo ako sayo..hehehe..Lam ganito lanbg yan eh, kung wala sya talagang nararamdamn sayo since lahat naman pinaramdam muna na mahal mu sya, i pack up na kuya..kaya rin siguro yaw nya na maging friends kayo para di kana masaktan at lalong umasa pa..mas ma ige narin yun ganun kung wala man talagang aasahan..Try to have space from one another malay mu sa pagkawala mu sakanya dun nya marealize ang halaga mu at pag na miis ka nya it means may feelings din sya sayo.. Wag mu masayadong i spoiled baka lumaki ang ulo...haba ng hair nya ha...hahaha..peace...If not naman eh di move on..mas marami ang babae kesa sa lalaki ngayun..hahaha..lols...makakahnap ka din ng deserve mu..

[lovehatehero]

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ewan ko nga ba.. tinamaan yata talaga ako, kahapon, tagabuhat ulet nya ako ng mga binili nyang gamet, i had fun naman, masaya naman syang kausap.. nung isang araw ko pa sana sya sasamahan kaso nacancel, tagal ko nagantay pero di ako nainis, then the next day kala ko cancel ulet, late lang sya ng 2hours tas ang aga kong dumating.. at hindi ko kayang tumanggi sa mga favor na hinihiling nya..xD haha! minsan gusto kong umiwas pero kapag anjan na sya gustong gusto ko nanaman syang kausap. haha! she has a lot of imperfections, pero imperfect din naman ako so di ko talaga alam. =p bahala na muna, go with the flow na lang muna ako, tas siguro wag ng umasa.. =) hayyy.. ill be a nice friend na lang sa kanya and hopefully makaget over na rin ako sa kanya..=) thanks for reading and replies, i truly appreciate it. =)

[shYgirL2012]

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ewan ko nga ba.. tinamaan yata talaga ako, kahapon, tagabuhat ulet nya ako ng mga binili nyang gamet, i had fun naman, masaya naman syang kausap.. nung isang araw ko pa sana sya sasamahan kaso nacancel, tagal ko nagantay pero di ako nainis, then the next day kala ko cancel ulet, late lang sya ng 2hours tas ang aga kong dumating.. at hindi ko kayang tumanggi sa mga favor na hinihiling nya..xD haha! minsan gusto kong umiwas pero kapag anjan na sya gustong gusto ko nanaman syang kausap. haha! she has a lot of imperfections, pero imperfect din naman ako so di ko talaga alam. =p bahala na muna, go with the flow na lang muna ako, tas siguro wag ng umasa.. =) hayyy.. ill be a nice friend na lang sa kanya and hopefully makaget over na rin ako sa kanya..=) thanks for reading and replies, i truly appreciate it. =)

Eh paanu ka makaka move on nyan kung panay ang sunod mu sakanya..Dapat lumayo ka muna.. Kung wala ka lang din naman pag asa sakanya eh bakit kapa nya painapa asa..Haist..tsk tsk...Lalo mu lang sinasaktan ang sarili mu..Pero malay naten mahulog din sya sayo..Minsan kasi nakukuha sa tiyaga...

[lovehatehero]

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ahahaha! sapul! worry not. mejo natatakot na rin ako, pero minsan talaga eh nagpapasama sya. i cant say no.. haha! weakness eh.. kainis. pero ayos lang, im planning to resign na rin para makaget over na rin.=) pag di ko na sya makikita siguro mas magiging madali na lahat. =)