single vs. taken. alin ba talaga ang mas masaya??

[leeyanisszeu]

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guys fess up! when you're single you'd like to find the right man right..?
& when you finally found that someone you end up
saying to yourself "nakakamiss maging single"..hehe

ano beh tlga?

[leeyanisszeu]

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guys fess up! when you're single you'd like to find the right man right..?
& when you finally found that someone you end up
saying to yourself "nakakamiss maging single"..hehe

ano beh tlga?

[Marisa Margatroid]

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Ay, true to life! Same experience... Actually hindi pa nga relationship yun eh. Courting stage pa nga lang tapos nami-miss ko na yung "totally single" life... haha

It's a matter of cycle once again.. when you haven't experienced love then you are very much eager to be in a relationship but when you're there already and started to miss out the activities and things you do when you're still single, you want to go back with your single life again even just for a while...

OR minsan kapag puro problema at pain lang ang dulot ng relationship, you want to go back -__-

OR you can count it all sa nature ng tao na madaling ma-bore and magsawa.
And sa nature ng tao na gusto lagi ng pagbabago kaya paiba-iba din ang mentality o_O

pero ayon sa mga taong successfuk ang relationship, mas masaya ang taken na lalo na kung compatible talaga kayo

[leeyanisszeu]

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Tama..i agree
coz when you're single you can meditate yourself in different aspects.career,family,friends,dating,etc...
But when you're already taken, seems you're life just evolve for that one person you're
intensely inlove with..right??..I mean things change for the better & worse (vice versa).magkakaron ng certain limits,
an outburst of emotion like "quarrels,break-ups", then you just find yourself totally cracked after all.

Kaya siguro some keep on saying "I miss being single"..

[Marisa Margatroid]

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^^ ay ou, tipong sa kanya na umiikot lahat at parang minsan nakaka-miss yung ibang activities na ginagawa mo habang single ka pa kasi wala ka ng "full spirit" para gawin yun ngayon since lahat nga ng interest, attention, etc. mo ay naka focus na sa kanya... haha

[Heartless Herptile]

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Well, we can't have it both ways. For sure we have to make adjustments and allowances. If you are the type who really, really values your "me" time then it's best not to enter a relationship for now. Paano na yung other person? He/she can't just be at your convenience, where you'll only speak/see him/her when you're bored/sad/lonely/frustrated etc. etc.

[Marisa Margatroid]

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Well, we can't have it both ways. For sure we have to make adjustments and allowances. If you are the type who really, really values your "me" time then it's best not to enter a relationship for now. Paano na yung other person? He/she can't just be at your convenience, where you'll only speak/see him/her when you're bored/sad/lonely/frustrated etc. etc.

Tomoh! In that case, that's drifting away from the sense of love. That's just plainly consuming affection and love from the person. You're not concerned with him anymore.
When you're still at the peak of your career and still want to flourish more and more, huwag muna hanapin ang partner, tendency is you'll hurt him.
 I agree, we can't have it both ways, who knows, the right balance for both will even bring better results--- better from your best experience when single and in a relationship.

[Heartless Herptile]

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Case to case basis naman yan e. You think you're all good, masaya ka sa buhay mo being single, happy and content, you don't need anybody in your life, you have friends and family, a job, salary blah blah blah. Then along comes this one extraordinary person who just blows you away. Mababago din ang pananaw mo. Pwedeng kang mabaliw sa kakaisip sa kanya. Then you'll eat your words.

[Marisa Margatroid]

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Tsss... nangyayari na ata sa akin yan ngayon >_< Dati kaya I even end up having a decission to be single forever, not getting married, dedicating my life to my purpose blah blah pero nung dumating ang "the one that will blow you away" ika nga... haha... nakain ko nga lahat ng sinabi ko >_< Nabago din ang personality, slight lang... haha...

[Heartless Herptile]

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Choices. Nothing wrong with being single or taken, as long as masaya ka naman. Hirap din siguro if you're doing it out of bitterness or out of spite. People and their beliefs and priorities can change to the point na when you do, you can't believe what you were before.

[IAMRJ]

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masaya yung parehas kayong single tapos maglalaro kayo ng TEKKEN 

[leeyanisszeu]

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Case to case basis naman yan e. You think you're all good, masaya ka sa buhay mo being single, happy and content, you don't need anybody in your life, you have friends and family, a job, salary blah blah blah. Then along comes this one extraordinary person who just blows you away. Mababago din ang pananaw mo. Pwedeng kang mabaliw sa kakaisip sa kanya. Then you'll eat your words.

Case to case basis naman yan e. You think you're all good, masaya ka sa buhay mo being single, happy and content, you don't need anybody in your life, you have friends and family, a job, salary blah blah blah. Then along comes this one extraordinary person who just blows you away. Mababago din ang pananaw mo. Pwedeng kang mabaliw sa kakaisip sa kanya. Then you'll eat your words.

[/quenamored with someone..maybe i'll end up saying those words like that..



you're absolutely right dear!! coz once you're greatly enamored with someone,nagkakaron ng altruism or what we call "selflessness"..
you'd like to do everything  you could just to make that person feel how much he/she means a lot to you..yung tipong pag taken ka na may mga bagay ka na nagagawa na hndi mo ginagawa noon..something like that

[leeyanisszeu]

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you're absolutely right dear!! coz once you're greatly enamored with someone,nagkakaron ng altruism or what we call "selflessness"..
you'd like to do everything  you could just to make that person feel how much he/she means a lot to you..yung tipong pag taken ka na may mga bagay ka na nagagawa na hndi mo ginagawa noon..something like that

[Heartless Herptile]

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Yeah, it happens talaga. It's hard to pick and choose our feelings.

[leeyanisszeu]

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Yeah, it happens talaga. It's hard to pick and choose our feelings.

haha..i like that line "hard to pick"..
tama..krmihan ng single choosy pa..