How do you feel when you are someone's first love?

[Marisa Margatroid]

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Okay... It's common that when you experience first love, every little thing seems so new and life-changing... how about kapag ikaw naman ang first love ng isang girl? How do you feel??
Are you flattered because you're the very first to enter her heart?
You feel dominating because you know you can be in control since the girl doesn't know anything?
Do you usually take advantage (even though you don't really mean it) because the girl is very fragile?
Do you feel obliged to be "extra" caring and loving since the girl is expecting too much from your love?
Are you annoyed since she's very much immature?
or are you scared because she's inexperienced and you just can't handle her demands?

Share your thoughts please :DD

[IAMRJ]

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siyempre flattering yun! kelangan ba maging dominating?  i think kung mas matured ka ikaw dapat ang umiintindi and kelangan ipaintindi mo rin sa partner mo ang mga bagay-bagay hindi yung ikaw ang nagcocontrol. take advantage? bakit? may mga gumagawa nga niyan but i don't like putting people in a box eh, mahirap maggeneralize, depende kasi yan kung talagang malinis ang intensyon mo. i don't feel obligated kasi kung feeling ko obligated akong maging 'extra caring and loving hindi na love yun eh  . hindi naman maiiwasan na ma-annoy minsan kung immature pa siya pero gaya nga ng sinabi ko kelangan mong ipaintindi sa kanya na she should learn to act more maturely and responsibly 

[Heartless Herptile]

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I'd feel honored and very happy if it would happen to me. But it would be wrong to return her feelings just because I'm feeling obligated to do so. It's only giving her false hope. I'm not doing her any favors if I do that. I have to like her as well. Milking it for all it's worth is also wrong.

[Marisa Margatroid]

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siyempre flattering yun! kelangan ba maging dominating?  i think kung mas matured ka ikaw dapat ang umiintindi and kelangan ipaintindi mo rin sa partner mo ang mga bagay-bagay hindi yung ikaw ang nagcocontrol. take advantage? bakit? may mga gumagawa nga niyan but i don't like putting people in a box eh, mahirap maggeneralize, depende kasi yan kung talagang malinis ang intensyon mo. i don't feel obligated kasi kung feeling ko obligated akong maging 'extra caring and loving hindi na love yun eh  . hindi naman maiiwasan na ma-annoy minsan kung immature pa siya pero gaya nga ng sinabi ko kelangan mong ipaintindi sa kanya na she should learn to act more maturely and responsibly 

Wow... flattered talaga kayo?? I never knew... akala ko wala lang yun sa inyo... haha.
and yep... I think that's the right thinking too--No one has to take control... in a loving relationship nobody must control somebody because it's not love anymore...
-___- Some guys do take advantage when the girl is very fragile -___-
Some guys feel pressured by their girl knowing that they're expecting too much from him, that's why some guys tend to be "extra" caring and loving. BUT I think that kind of situation will not lead to anything good at all >_<

Thank you soo much! Very well answered po~~

[Marisa Margatroid]

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I'd feel honored and very happy if it would happen to me. But it would be wrong to return her feelings just because I'm feeling obligated to do so. It's only giving her false hope. I'm not doing her any favors if I do that. I have to like her as well. Milking it for all it's worth is also wrong.

TAMA! Huwag paaasahin kung walang balak mahalin~~ haha..

[Heartless Herptile]

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Wow... flattered talaga kayo?? I never knew... akala ko wala lang yun sa inyo... haha.

Di naman, ang gandang pakiramdam nun ha, lalo na kapag totoong galing sa puso. At para sabihin ng isang girl sa guy ang ganon, parang ginawa nya na "vulnerable" ang kanyang sarili. That's my take on it.

[Marisa Margatroid]

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Di naman, ang gandang pakiramdam nun ha, lalo na kapag totoong galing sa puso. At para sabihin ng isang girl sa guy ang ganon, parang ginawa nya na "vulnerable" ang kanyang sarili. That's my take on it.

The girl is making herself "vulnerable"? In what way naman po?
Do you think po it's good to let the guy know that he's my first love?
Ask lang po~~

[Heartless Herptile]

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Naisip ko lang, since it's her first love, baka masyado nya pahalagahan to the point she's willing to do almost everything to keep it, thus potentially putting herself in a vulnerable situation to be taken advantage of, lalo na kung hindi talaga ideal yung guy.

I think it's a big thing when someone regardless of gender admits to another that he/she is his/her first love. Siguro just don't expect too much na lang.

[witterquick]

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Flattering yun on my part. Pero syempre, never take advantage of the situation

[Thitoh BhoY]

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virgin pa ko jan...wala naman kasi nagkakagusto sakin ehh

[Clint Barton]

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^ako teh try mo?


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Pass!!! mahirap yan. kandadong bandido labas ko jan saka kakaumay... ok na yung pareho kayong may experience, at least alam na gagawin or may idea man lamang

[Permafrost]

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kung ako ung first love? kung totoo man un, I will do everything to make her feel na ako yung first and last at wla na syang ibang hahanapin pang iba.

un eh kung totoo nga ako ung first love. dami kasing sinungaling na tao ngaun eh.