Be HONEST! You will only court when you are sure that the girl will say 'yes'?

[Marisa Margatroid]

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I just noticed... Is it really a fact that guys only court girls when they are sure that the girl will accept him? Kapag ba medyo alanganin and hindi kayo sure kung sasagutin kayo, back off na agad?? natatakot kayong masaktan? You don't take the risk? Gusto niyo lagi ng assurance?

I know that you guys are different, some will really try hard to win a girl's heart but MOSTLY (correct me if I'm wrong) will court a girl they could hook... Riiiight?? 

Opinions? Experience? Agree or Disagree?? Please Share your thoughts

[Heartless Herptile]

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I only courted one girl. I could tell she liked me as well, maybe that's why she said yes. But I didn't court her all the while thinking it was a sure thing. I did it because I liked her. I don't think I will court someone just because she is "easy to get to say yes."

[Thitoh BhoY]

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try and try untill you die!!! bwahahaha

but it doesn't hurt to make calculated risks

[IAMRJ]

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not for me ma'am so far hindi pa naman ako nabasted 

[Marisa Margatroid]

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I only courted one girl. I could tell she liked me as well, maybe that's why she said yes. But I didn't court her all the while thinking it was a sure thing. I did it because I liked her. I don't think I will court someone just because she is "easy to get to say yes."

not for me ma'am so far hindi pa naman ako nabasted 

Seems like I'm wrong. Most of the guys I meet would look for an assurance or hint before they actually court a girl. May nakausap pa nga ako minsan, type niya ang isang girl pero hindi niya niligawan kasi malabo daw... something like that? And I actually experienced that kind of situation...  Pagkatapos kong aminin sa isang guy na gusto ko siya, para bang ready to go na siya... parang kaya ng ibigay lahat? But when I cleared things up with him... sabi ko gusto ko lang siya and I'm interested with him but I'm still not that type who would go in a relationship after kong malaman na mutual ang feelings namin... after that bigla siyang naging cold? My friend told me na naghahanap lang yung guy na yun ng assurance... well I dunno...

[Marisa Margatroid]

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try and try untill you die!!! bwahahaha

but it doesn't hurt to make calculated risks

Wow... try and try until you die ha... nyahaha... Totoo ba yan??
Yep, you guys are calculating and sometimes are afraid to take risks -___- and yeah. it doesn't hurt because calculations actually prevent you from getting hurt, right?

[Heartless Herptile]

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Guys are calculating and sometimes are afraid to take risks -___- and yeah. it doesn't hurt because calculations actually prevent you from getting hurt, right?

Yes, it's true sometimes. Fear of rejection, being intimidated by the woman, etc. etc. Then again, not all things are certain. What's certain though is if one doesn't try then nothing will happen. People here have given me this advice countless times. Di ba guys? Hehe!

[IAMRJ]

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Seems like I'm wrong. Most of the guys I meet would look for an assurance or hint before they actually court a girl. May nakausap pa nga ako minsan, type niya ang isang girl pero hindi niya niligawan kasi malabo daw... something like that? And I actually experienced that kind of situation...  Pagkatapos kong aminin sa isang guy na gusto ko siya, para bang ready to go na siya... parang kaya ng ibigay lahat? But when I cleared things up with him... sabi ko gusto ko lang siya and I'm interested with him but I'm still not that type who would go in a relationship after kong malaman na mutual ang feelings namin... after that bigla siyang naging cold? My friend told me na naghahanap lang yung guy na yun ng assurance... well I dunno...

baka confused lang siya kaya ganun minsan kasi hindi talaga magaling ang mga guys sa pananalita and sometimes better for them na umiwas nalang rather than faced the reality of what they are truly feeling inside.

[Marisa Margatroid]

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baka confused lang siya kaya ganun minsan kasi hindi talaga magaling ang mga guys sa pananalita and sometimes better for them na umiwas nalang rather than faced the reality of what they are truly feeling inside.

Kunasabagay... it's a common ground to be confused talaga pagdating sa relationship. Ganyan din naman kaming mga girls.. I kinda agree that guys are not that really good in expressing their feelings through words specially kapag nagsisimula pa lang and nasa courting phase... haha... I even arrived at a point na ako na ang nag-i-initiate para mailabas nung guy yung gusto niyang sabihin... haha Yikes... parang ako ang gumagawa ng moves eh noh >_<

[C H O Y]

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Wala ng challenge kung alam mo na may gusto sya sayo at para sakin parang dinaya mo  nalang feelings mo non knowing na may gusto sya sayo.

At kung mag risk man akong manligaw ng girl na walang gusto sa akin at ma busted ako atleast nag try ako..

Sabi nga ni dong diba try and try..

[Marisa Margatroid]

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Wala ng challenge kung alam mo na may gusto sya sayo at para sakin parang dinaya mo  nalang feelings mo non knowing na may gusto sya sayo.

At kung mag risk man akong manligaw ng girl na walang gusto sa akin at ma busted ako atleast nag try ako..

Ganun? Talagang naghahanp ng challenge?
Most of you guys in here are different from the guys I've known in real life. Bilang na bilang lang talaga sa daliri yung nag ta-take ng risk to court a girl in which they're clueless kung may mararating nga ba...

 

Sabi nga ni dong diba try and try..

[Heartless Herptile]

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Yes, I want to make sure.....I want to make sure of my feelings for her first. Hindi yung infatuated lang or yung spur-of-the-moment decision, out-of-the-blue na "hmmmm, ligawan ko kaya?" Kumbaga e hindi dapat "wala lang."

[C H O Y]

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Ewan ko lang sa mga kilala mo miss.
Parang di lang ako na use na manligaw na may gusto sa akin.
Di ako panget, baka isipin mo na walang magkakagusto sa akin..

Di rin ako sanay na manligaw sa tao na kabarangay ko lang..
Gusto ko parang explore kung ano talaga ang meaning ng buhay outside of my comfort zone at kung anong ang naghihintay sa akin..
Pwede kang mag english. sorry di ako ganun ka galing mag english. Baka sumablay pa ko.. Mahirap na!!!

[Marisa Margatroid]

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Ewan ko lang sa mga kilala mo miss.
Parang di lang ako na use na manligaw na may gusto sa akin.
Di ako panget, baka isipin mo na walang magkakagusto sa akin..

Di rin ako sanay na manligaw sa tao na kabarangay ko lang..
Gusto ko parang explore kung ano talaga ang meaning ng buhay outside of my comfort zone at kung anong ang naghihintay sa akin..
Pwede kang mag english. sorry di ako ganun ka galing mag english. Baka sumablay pa ko.. Mahirap na!!!

Ahaha... Hindi ko naman po iniisip na panget ka Tama po ang ganyang thinking...  ewan ko nga rin bakit ganito ang mga kakilala kong guys, kaya wala akong magustuhan... kapag kasi ganun alam mong hindi yun seryoso or parang fling lang.

Yes, I want to make sure.....I want to make sure of my feelings for her first. Hindi yung infatuated lang or yung spur-of-the-moment decision, out-of-the-blue na "hmmmm, ligawan ko kaya?" Kumbaga e hindi dapat "wala lang."

Yeah, I believe that's the right thinking. The guys I've known thus far are maybe just too young and immature when it comes to relationship... They're too impulsive... confusing love with infatuation... It's good to know some guys are still thinking relationship seriously

[Heartless Herptile]

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Di ako panget

Buti ka pa, Choy. Hehe.

It's good to know some guys are still thinking relationship seriously

I think I'm a little to old to make too many mistakes anymore. On the other hand, I also don't want to over-analyze and be too logical. Nothing will happen.