Which do you think comes first, Love or Trust? :)

[serious_faye]

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cguro  trust ang nauna..kaya mo nga sya minahal dahil may tiwala ka sa kanya..

[cho]

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yeah right...it should be the other way around hahaha (ako lang kasi ang sumagot ng love dito)

[gorgeouslycynical]

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yeah right...it should be the other way around hahaha (ako lang kasi ang sumagot ng love dito)

indeed.

[cho]

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indeed.

most of you here kasi view trust as a different entity or separated from love. once the trust is lost, break up na so you love the person because you just trust him/her? and you don't love them because you don't trust them do you? hahaha

oh well..i don't wanna justify my stand dahil tinatamad ako maglecture

[serious_faye]

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most of you here kasi view trust as a different entity or separated from love. once the trust is lost, break up na so you love the person because you just trust him/her? and you don't love them because you don't trust them do you? hahaha

oh well..i don't wanna justify my stand dahil tinatamad ako maglecture

oyy, mag lecture ka na..justify mo yung answer mo..malay mo magbago yung perspective q na trust ang nauna..hehe..

[cho]

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oyy, mag lecture ka na..justify mo yung answer mo..malay mo magbago yung perspective q na trust ang nauna..hehe..

pfffft tinatamad nga ako, saka na kapag sinipag nako

[Marisa Margatroid]

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most of you here kasi view trust as a different entity or separated from love. once the trust is lost, break up na so you love the person because you just trust him/her? and you don't love them because you don't trust them do you? hahaha

oh well..i don't wanna justify my stand dahil tinatamad ako maglecture

The first time I saw the question, I was like, 'that's tricky' but on the other hand trust is the obvious answer I came up with... because you have to have a reason to love someone completely and trust are one of the very first reasons... But looking from Cho's perspective... napaisip ako... haha ^^ Yeah... LOve and Trust are like two married couples... two souls in one body. They shouldn't be viewed as different entity although they have different qualities...

[Thitoh BhoY]

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ay, depende kasi, aanhin mo pa yung trust pag tapos na ung love....

mas mainam eh mag trust muna bago maglabing labing!

[andi]

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uhmmm, PGT, ang hirap na tanong. nasagot ko na to pero parang I'm on a 50/50 slate na.

Ok, can I call a friend now?

Or ask the audience? LOL

[cho]

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uhmmm, PGT, ang hirap na tanong. nasagot ko na to pero parang I'm on a 50/50 slate na.

Ok, can I call a friend now?

Or ask the audience? LOL

call me! hahaha

But looking from Cho's perspective... napaisip ako... haha ^^ Yeah... LOve and Trust are like two married couples... two souls in one body. They shouldn't be viewed as different entity although they have different qualities...

kasi..to start with, we must have a definition of what love is. according to the bible in the book of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7; Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs, Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in truth. It always protects, always TRUSTS, always hopes, always perseveres.

love is basically abstract in nature and most of us say it is an emotion or something. when a person say "i love you", you can't quantify the statement "i love you" until love is manifested to its quality of being true or being tangible na nararamdaman natin. how is love being quantified? it is when the above definitions, including trust, are being shown.

a good example of this is from the book of John 3:16 na over rated na verse sa bible. sabi dun, For God so loved the world that he GAVE his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. sooo, what i'm trying to point here is, love is basically giving. to give, is to love. we give so that love is manifested through giving in able for the object of affection to quantify love. dahil nga, words alone like the statement "i love you" can't be quantified.

what do we give? as defined above, isa sa mga ito ay ang trust. we give our trust knowing that at the back of our mind, we love. even before we decided to trust the person, we are already driven by love love came first, trust is just the fruit of it, being used to express how much love is.

[andi]

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call me! hahaha

mahal tumawag sa'yo! hahaha
ite-text na lang uli kita! LOL

[Marisa Margatroid]

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kasi..to start with, we must have a definition of what love is. according to the bible in the book of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7; Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs, Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in truth. It always protects, always TRUSTS, always hopes, always perseveres.

love is basically abstract in nature and most of us say it is an emotion or something. when a person say "i love you", you can't quantify the statement "i love you" until love is manifested to its quality of being true or being tangible na nararamdaman natin. how is love being quantified? it is when the above definitions, including trust, are being shown.

a good example of this is from the book of John 3:16 na over rated na verse sa bible. sabi dun, For God so loved the world that he GAVE his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. sooo, what i'm trying to point here is, love is basically giving. to give, is to love. we give so that love is manifested through giving in able for the object of affection to quantify love. dahil nga, words alone like the statement "i love you" can't be quantified.

what do we give? as defined above, isa sa mga ito ay ang trust. we give our trust knowing that at the back of our mind, we love. even before we decided to trust the person, we are already driven by love love came first, trust is just the fruit of it, being used to express how much love is.

SUPER LIKE! with matching *clap clap* haha... very well explained... lipat na rin ako sa Love first before Trust

hmmm kaya lang medyo may doubt pa rin ako... para kasing ang love first then trust ay perfectly applied to God's love only, Since he's the embodiment of love itself, all fruits come from his love. He loves us that's why He trusts us (that we're still going to turn unto Him) he loves us that's why He made sacrifices for us... He loves us that's why He's patient and continually forgives our sin... so on and so on...

eh sa mundo natin-- a fallen world, a totally different realm, a sin-bathed world, I doubt people like us have this kind of mentality, or CAN we HAVE this kind of mentality, that is...

most of the time we see love needs some kind of requirement...we need this and that in order to love... but the truth is, it should be the other way around... we need to love first before we could do this and that... kaya lang para magawa nga natin yan (yung mga qualities ng love na nsabi sa Corinthians), we need to show perfect love to others... yung walang halong pagdududa... yung walang halong malice.. and other thoughts that will overshadow our love.. but I think God is the only one who can give perfect love...

getss?? o_O Did I sound too philosophical and spiritual?? pasensiya... na-carried away onti... -___-

[cho]

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SUPER LIKE! with matching *clap clap* haha... very well explained... lipat na rin ako sa Love first before Trust

hmmm kaya lang medyo may doubt pa rin ako... para kasing ang love first then trust ay perfectly applied to God's love only, Since he's the embodiment of love itself, all fruits come from his love. He loves us that's why He trusts us (that we're still going to turn unto Him) he loves us that's why He made sacrifices for us... He loves us that's why He's patient and continually forgives our sin... so on and so on...

there's a distinction between God's love at yung sa mga tao kaya you shouldn't compare God and us in terms of the extent on how much love is expressed. truely God's love is the perfect love and our love can never be perfect tulad ng kay God but can be true only in the condition na our love is being expressed in relation to God's love. dahil yung God's love in the bible is just a portrayal for us or an example for us to know how we should love. it's there in the scriptures for us to follow the pattern, to know what love is and how we should love.

eh sa mundo natin-- a fallen world, a totally different realm, a sin-bathed world, I doubt people like us have this kind of mentality, or CAN we HAVE this kind of mentality, that is...

most of the time we see love needs some kind of requirement...we need this and that in order to love...

these are the product of our rationalization and justifications of love as humans kasama na rin ang human nature natin. these are the consequences coming from our decisions fueled by human reasoning. kaya my mga ganyang mentality as you have mentioned above, dahil each of us here can rationalize.

getss?? o_O Did I sound too philosophical and spiritual?? pasensiya... na-carried away onti... -___-

you shouldn't have considered the idea that humans are to show perfect love like God did. God's perfect love is there for us to get the idea of what love is and how we should love. we can only be true in how we show our love, but perfect is love is just for God.

[CHARKOALA]

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a vicious cycle...one can't be complete without the other,
that is if a relationship is concerned.

[sporty ninja]

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Ideally trust dapat. But for me ang nangyari is LUST ang nauna eh.
Before naging kami ni gf eh parang fubu kami. As time goes by i slowly know her personality which really got me attracted to her. Until we exclusively dating then one day she couldnt stand it anymore cause she fell for me. Then i offered her na kami na, at first hesitant pero pumayag din. Now we are a happy couple. Sometimes pinag uusapan namin how we started and she finds it embarrasing hehe pero kung pabalikin ang panahon, wala daw siyang babaguhin kasi di raw sya nagsisi hehe