Enlighten Me

[Snow_Blind]

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Ladies, I want to ask for your opinion. How would you interpret this:

I have a friend, a female friend. She's married to one of my buddies. When they fight, she comes to me looking for someone to talk to.
I'm fine with that, no problem. but lately, I find her invitations weird.

Here's what happened:

1. She asked me to come over to her place at 12AM to share a few beers, because according to her she needs someone to talk to. her hubby was not around. They just had a fight.
2. 2 Weeks after, she texted me again, late at night. Asking me if we could share a few beers. Again, this was right after they had an argument and her husband was not around.
3. Just last Tue, she sent me a message out of the blue saying:"Kahit ano mangyare samen, sana andyan kapa rin. Para naman gumaan loob ko."

My reaction was: WTF? Girl are you on crack? I declined when she asked me to have a few beers and I didn't reply to her text message. I just want to get an opinion from a woman's point of view. Am I overreacting or misinterpreting her? Or am I doing the right thing by trying to avoid her. As of now, I'm staying away from her. I don't want to be involved in any affair or what not.

Your responses are well appreciated. TIA.

[Thitoh BhoY]

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nais lang nyang gumanti pag di ka available ako na lang proxy

[Snow_Blind]

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True hehe. Yun din iniisip ko mwahaha.

[magdalena]

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hahahhaa

[pastor paradox]

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My reaction was: WTF? Girl are you on crack? I declined when she asked me to have a few beers and I didn't reply to her text message. I just want to get an opinion from a woman's point of view. Am I overreacting or misinterpreting her? Or am I doing the right thing by trying to avoid her. As of now, I'm staying away from her. I don't want to be involved in any affair or what not.

I am a guy
But I have had similar things happen to friends of mine.
You are doing the right thing staying away from her, it will end up a "mess".

I am guessing she is probably doing the same thing with his other buddies.
One of my buddy's wife would do this.
She would have a few beers with one of his buddies.
Then start hitting on him, and if the guy lost his self control because he was drunk, ended up having sex with her.

We all knew this was happening.
One of us tried to tell him, he got angry that we even hint his wife screwing around on him.
So don't tell your buddy what is happening. It sucks, but .....

[pastor paradox]

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As for her being on crack, I have no idea why women want to do things with a buddy of her husband.
Find some stranger or something.
Honestly I would like to get the opinion of other women why this is happening etc.

[Thitoh BhoY]

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eto kandila tutok mo sa mukha mo para ma en-lighten ka

[♥ tOXiC ♥]

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nag oover react ka lang

mga lalake madalas feeler eh

hindi naman porke gusto nya na anjan ka pa rin kahit anong mangyari sa kanila eh yun na nga din yung iniisip mo

maybe alam nyang buddy mo si hubby and pwedeng iwasan mo sya if ever maghiwalay sila, kasi pwedeng umiwas ka para maiwasan naman ang complications with her husband... gets?

[andi]

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Invitations to her house at 12am when her husband is not around? Those texts?

Di sya weird kuya, lumalandi sya! hahaha

Kung wala syang ibang naiisip maliban sa comforting, why not meet up at broad daylight in a safe and malice-free setting di ba? Kahit for the sake of appearances man lang.

Well, I guess it's really better for you to lay off her affairs.
Wag na makisawsaw para wag gumulo lalo, baka ang siste eh ikaw pa mapagbuntungan ng sisi.