how to get her back

[amboy]

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I was in a long distance relationship for 5 months and we recently broke up like a week ago. Nagjoke ako about her being with another guy and she took it seriously. She broke up with me and she didnt block my calls at first then i called her and kinulit ko sya to the point na she got mad and totally block me on her cellphone after one week she unblock and i called and she answered and i told her i want to explain so i did. Then after she blocked me again i dont know why but she wrote me a letter saying that the love she showed me was real. So does she have feelings for me still and can i get her back?

[amboy]

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walang isang reply man lang

[amboy]

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out 46 na nagbasa

[pastor paradox]

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5 months LDR is not enough time to establish a "real relationship". Just saying.
Don't try and talk "logical". Women say one thing, mean another.

That she blocked you and then unblocked you, and then blocked you, and then wrote a letter she cares about you, indicates she still cares about you She is just "pissed" at you.

Basically write her a letter back. Maybe send her small gifts, they do not have to be expensive, just little things to show you care.
Don't try and "explain" in your letter. Bottom line is you fucked up
Just say that you are sorry. (Just "I am sorry" nothing more nothing less) then write
That you miss her a lot, why you miss her, etc.
Be honest, write why you miss her, what you like about her, don't lie
Don't be impatient, if nothing happens, after a few days. Send her another letter

Unless there is reason to think she is being unfaithful to you, never joke about these things.
Even if you think she is, make sure you have positive proof.

LDR relationships are difficult.

[amboy]

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hey thanks for replying. The letter actually said that the "love she showed me was real" but i have to move on now" after i sent her a gift.
timeline
wed-break up
thu-i said hi she said hi and thats it
fri- nothing
sat-nothng and blocks me on cell
sun- sent her gifts
mon
tue
wed- sends me email saying i shouldnt have bothered and that her love was real
thu-sent her message she doesnt reply
fri-sent her flowers
sat-no reply
then wednesday she unblocks her phone and we talk she said to explain, i did.
thur- she blocks me again
and blocked until now
my question is does she still loves me?

[pastor paradox]

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my question is does she still loves me?

You have only been in a relationship with her for 5 months.
Also it has been an LDR one.

Leave her alone for a two weeks.
Resist the temptation to call her, or contact her for those entire 2 weeks.

That will give her time to think about you.
If she really loves you, she will miss you.

Women are funny creatures, sometimes the more you chase them, the less they want you.

Then after 2 weeks just tell her "I was thinking of you miss you" or something like that.
Do that every day for a few days.
Don't explain.
Just say how much you missed her.

If that does not work, move on

[amboy]

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thanks mr. paradox. This reply is for your first comment. I thought 5 months is good enough to
establish a real relationship. How long is it to establish "real relationship" in LDR and a regular no LDR?

I'll never joke about her being  unfaithful again learned my lesson.

Ok wanted to see it from another point of view. She went out with this guy for two years before me like 3 years ago and i saw that she added this guy on one of her social sites, she added him 4 days after we broke up.

I called last week about it and she said that doesnt mean nothing and her bestfriend said that dont worry about it because she does add and delete him every now and then.

She made it sound like nothing is happening with both of them but my friend thinks there is because why would she block me?

[pastor paradox]

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With an LDR it is not a "real relationship".
Even if you are just dating it is not a "real relationship".
A "real relationship" is when both of you solve real life problems together.
Honestly a real relationship probably does not start until 2 years after you have been together, and the happy buzz wears off.
Whether it holds together after that who knows

For starters you seem really "clingy" and "needy".
A relationship will not magically fix all your problems, it will make it worse.

There could be other factors, she told you to "move on".
Maybe she cares about you, but she thinks you are not mature enough.

Again maturity has little to do with age, I have know people that are more mature at 16 then some people at 32.
IMHO a lot of filipino are immature since they generally speaking are not independent, but always living with their parents.

[S H Y ♥]

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Women are funny creatures, sometimes the more you chase them, the less they want you.

haha i love this line daddy...

[S H Y ♥]

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i've also been in an LDR before (well until now.)

and its kinda hard..arghh

anyway never joke your gf about her seeing another guy kasi tinitake namin un seriously.
para kasing kini question nio ung faithfulness nio samin kahit thru joke pa sya.

ginanun na kasi ako ng bf ko and i really got mad..

just dont give up sa pagsuyo sa kanya..

and tell her that you learned your lesson na.


stay inlove ♥ 

[shemiss13]

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I'm in same situation as you are.. My bf and I we're in an LDR for like 2 months now... and we're already 1 year and 5 months.. Not by judging you're gf but I think if she really do love you, she wouldn't block your calls and she'll let you explain right away.. LDR is a hard situation and she must know that communication is really important., why would she block your calls if she truly loves you.. I just don't get it..Love in LDR understands., I understand that you love your girl but try to figure out things.. Does she really love you..?