HOW CAN I MAKE HIM FALL INLOVE WHEN HIS HEART WAS HARDENED BY HIS PAST?

[anitabaker]

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HELLO

itago nyo nalang ako s pangalang anita hehehe

kasi, there's this guy na i've met.he's a CEO gwapo at perfect tlg 20 years ang agwat namin but we still look compatible.he cannot believe my age kasi daw i am so mature for my age.

he wants to settle down narin.he has a son. His ex wife cheated on him 5 times at nabuntis ng DOM

we enjoy each others company,he calls me regularly,we had a mutual understanding and may endearment n nga kmi, "baby" hhehe.

my family knows him na, close n nga rin kung tutuusin.

ang totoo nyan mga kaibigan, may nangyari n sa amin. afterwards, mas lalo syang nplapit sa akin.he's telling me n pag 18 nko (which is some months away nlng) at ok parin kami ipe petition nyako s US. Pero ang totoo hndi ako nag e expect n kmi nga.this is just too good to be true, gusto o lng sya mgng msya eventualy kasi ang sakit ng pnag daanan nya he said na mahirap n rw s knya ang ma fall in love pero makikita raw namin and time will tell. ang sabi kopa,bsta ang gusto ko lang ay maging masaya sya at kahit hindi ako yon sna makita nya na ung taong para tlg s knya dahil mas magiging msya ako don.

sabi nya, may connection dw s aming dlwa, n hndi nya nrmdman s iba. i just want him badly, i think i am inlove with this man pero i am afraid n eventually, mwla sya. but i am ready,somehow. sabi nya, after he comes back from america he'll give me the go signal n kung ako nb tlg, malinaw nmn ang usapan naming dlwa, i must repress my feelings hanggang dipa sya certain s feelings nya. but personally, i think i stand a great chance since may foundation na, at nakikita ko namang he's really into me. but paano kung mayrong mangyari uli? since un ang gusto nya at pati narin ako?pano? haayy i badly need ur advice guys

[DocEdd]

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Can someone answer her. Honestly, I'm going to burst to anger again.

Ate, wag mo nang gawing kawawa sarili mo kasi halata naman kung ano gusto mo eh. Do you think I am an idiot? Pinapaikot mo lang utak ko. You're doing the "victim" manipulation technique.

Look at the facts:

YOUR A MINOR 18 YEARS OR LOWER, FILIPINA, YOUR BOYFRIEND IS A FOREIGNER, HE'S RICH, YOU WANT HIM TO FALL FOR YOU. TAKE NOTE YOU SAID "WANT" NOT "NEED".

This what I'm thinking:

1.Are you a graduate?
2.If this guy leaves you and you do not have any degree, how can you live on your own?
3.So what if you love him? The question is will it even last?
4.You're a minor, what makes you think you're mature enough to handle your emotions in a marraige scenario?
5.It's obvious where you met him.
6.You're depending too much on this guy so that means you're not independent on your emotions. In short, you're immature.
7.I guarantee that your marraige won't last 3-4 years because there are a lot of issues that you still have to undergo so why waste answering your question?
8.Analyzing your statement, you're extremely self-centered as of now, that will cause your downfall if you get married with this guy.

I handle pretty much any situation on relationship miss, I'm telling you. You're not ready to get married.

I know you're going to be stubborn and still follow what you feel so do it your way and see for yourself.

Honestly, this girl wants a "magic potion" to get her man. I mean what kind of female that chases a guy? It's pretty obvious what you want my friend that's why your question is desperate. I know because I'm a psychiatrist.

If I help you, I'm only tolerating your stubbornness and will get you spoiled.

Rule one in every mature parent's book: NEVER SPOIL A PERSON ESPECIALLY TEENAGERS.

So anyone here wants to answer her?

 
 

[anitabaker]

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thanks for your advice but i guess you've misconstrued something here. maybe ang na pi picture mo po ay yung typical n american na matanda mayaman at madaling mamatay. and he's not even a mile close to that. maybe kasi you're thinking guys na i am just attracted with his money and that is not true.i am attracted to him physically and emotionally. we are affiliated with the same religion and that's a big deal since we cannot marry sum1 from a different religion. i wouldn't give myself with the person im not sure about. i am a masscom student and whether im gunna marry him or not im gunna finish my studies. i mean, if we are both inlove why waste time? i guess maturity has nothing to do with age. and i am absolutely not depending on this guy. if he doesn't want me then i wouldn't insist myself, but the thing is i am just worried with the fact that he was emotionally abused by his ex wife for 6 years which made his heart a bit callous . but as the romantics say, there's a spark. i don't know i am just very happy when i am with him and so does he. so do not be so hard on me pero i do respect your input about it and thank you very much for sharing it to me. it'll help me analyze things

[pastor paradox]

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Can someone answer her. Honestly, I'm going to burst to anger again.
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So anyone here wants to answer her?

I will answer. My head hurts from too much wine, and I do not feel like being nice.
What was it that you said last time. Most filipinos watch stupid telenovellas and live in a fantasy world.
Typical filipino telenovella plot
1) Stupid poor filipina meets handsome rich guy.
2) Rich guy ignores filpina
3) Then amazingly enough rich guy falls in love with stupid filipina. Maybe because she has good tits and a good body. The plot never really gets too deep into this part. It is not because she is intelligent, since she seems to lack any of that.
4) The get married, ride off into the sunset, and the filipina never has to work again since rich guy supports her sorry ass.

In english, we have names for women like that.
Whore, gold digger, opportunist, gutter slut.
Those are not very complimentary names.

It has nothing to do with the guy being a foreigner.
I am a foreigner married to a filipina.
Most people foreigners and filipinos are shocked when they meet my wife.
She is well educated, well spoken, comes from a good family,she is independent, makes her own money etc.
I would have never married her otherwise
Her english is also better then mine
Her family also did not want me to marry her. I had to work hard on that

Most foreigners marry filipina because they are losers and can meet women in their own country.
So they usually end up with some filipina who used to be a GRO or is some gold digging little slut he found on the street.
Then after the gold digging filipina catches the foreigner she gets pregnant as soon as possible.
That way she the child will be a citizen of the country of the foreigner. After she has 1-2 more kids she is good to go.
She then can get the foreigner to sponsor her to go to the country of the foreigner.
After that point in time, she has everything she needs, she then files for annulment since under filipino law she gets 1/2 of foreigners assets.

97% of filipina are not like that. But 97% of filipina who marry foreigner are like that.
Wonder why the word "filipina" in most foreign countries means the same thing as "slut" "whore" etc ?
Well you can thank that 3%.

You are deluding yourself.

kasi, there's this guy na i've met.he's a CEO

i am just attracted with his money and that is not true.i am attracted to him physically and emotionally

If you second statement was true.
Then your first thing you said about him would not be "he is a CEO".
I will give you the benefit of the doubt, and say that you are just fooling yourself.

My wife probably would not be so polite.
She would probably out and out call you a liar, a pokpok, GRO etc.
She hates women like you, since you make good women like her look bad.

[DocEdd]

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What? "Maturity has nothing to do with love"?

No disrespect but you really need to read a lot of books my friend, that's exactly why I'm recommending you not to get married. You still haven't understand love fully yet. Maturity, my friend, has a lot to do with love. You keep that kind of idea, you're going to get divorced pretty quick, that's 100% guarantee.

I'm sorry if I'm hard missy but life is not going to be soft on you when you made a mistake. You think life is all about fantasy and happy ending? No! It will degrade your character to the lowest pit if it has to. It won't care if you're happy.

Life will just say, "So what if you're happy? What the hell do I care?"

Like paradox said, your living a fantasy world miss. It won't last. Before you even get to marriage, fix yourself first. If you do not learn how to love yourself, it won't matter who you love. It will always fail.