how much do you trust your bestfriend?

[miszbetty]

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[♥ tOXiC ♥]

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i trust her more than i trust my hubby lolz

[misSHAI'87]

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i dont really give my trust to anyone kahit na bestfriend ko pa.. i only trust my bestfriend 60%..dati kasi binaliktad niya ako. mahirap na.

[DocEdd]

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There was a man named Volataire, he once said, “Lord, save me from my friends, I can take care of my enemies.”

In the rules of war, your friends/allies are your greatest enemies because they know a lot about you and you know nothing about them.

There was a story I want to share, the title was “The Snake, The Farmer, The Heron”

A snake chased by hunters asked a farmer to save its life. To hide it from its pursuers, crawl into his belly. But when the danger had passed and the farmer asked the snake to come out, the snake refused. It was warm and safe inside.

On his way home, the man saw a heron and went up to him and whispered what had happend. The heron told him to squat and strain to eject the snake. When the snake snuck its head out, the heron caught it, pulled it out and killed it.

The farmer was worried that the snake poison might still be inside him, and the heron told him the cure for snake poison was to cook and eat six white fowl. "you"re a white fowl, "said the farmer. "you will do for a start." he grabbed the heron, put it in a bag, and carried it home. Where he hung it up while he told his wife what had happend. "i"m surprised at you. "said the wife. "the bird does you a kindness, rides you of the evil in your belly. Saves your life infact. Yet you catch it and talk of killing it." she immediately released the heron and it flew away. But on its way, it gouged out her eyes.

How many times have we heard about stories of friends betraying friends? A lot. Like the story there, when the farmer’s wife let go of the heron, it gouged her eyes.

Now why did he do that despite doing something of a kind gesture towards him? Well no matter who you are, friends can still betray friends just because of a simple miscommunicated act.

When King Arthur puts his faith on her wife, Guinevere, she betrays him for his bestfriend, Lancelot, one of his trusted knights in Camelot. St. Joan of Ark, after defeating the Saxons on one of the largest regions of Britain, the king of France betrayed her by calling her a witch and have her burn in a stake.

Even I was deceived by my own sister when she got pregnant during her young years. I was always seeing her happy and studying hard prompting me to suspect that nothing was wrong but one time she just blurted out that she was pregnant and she was seeing a guy in her school. From that moment forth, I was careful in giving away trust to anyone even to my wife and children. If you want my trust, then you have to earn it hard.

Anyway, the point is, we can never tell what’s going on in each other’s mind. What we think, what we do, what we intend to do are all mysteries that neither of us can tell.

But for your own safety, never trust anyone even if you love that guy very much. Make him/her earn that trust first before giving your trust because the very best friends in this world, believe it or not, are the ones who shared an intense amount of suffering with you during the course of your life.

Remember, if you really want to trust anyone, let them prove it first otherwise “take a hike buddy” because only the best shall be chosen.

[tempgirl]

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Before i trusted her 100%... Well now... I don't trust her anymore even if we're okay now... A bestfriend would never ever f*ck the guy i really really really liked 2yrs ago... We can joke abt it now but haha... To trust her again?? NO FREAKIN' WAY LOL

[DocEdd]

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Tama, Tempgirl. Remember, there are two sides of everything, a "Joker" in everyone's heart.

Joker, as remembered in Batman, hides his true intentions with a smile and kills people without remorse. He is both brutal and cunning at the same time.

So that means that not necessarily everyone who is beautiful, friendly, humorous, and a gentleman is actually what they seem to be. Deep down inside they could be more than just what there actions say. 

[pastor paradox]

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Before i trusted her 100%... Well now... I don't trust her anymore even if we're okay now... A bestfriend would never ever f*ck the guy i really really really liked 2yrs ago... We can joke abt it now but haha... To trust her again?? NO FREAKIN' WAY LOL

But you should be allowed to fuk the guy ?
If you where really best friends you would have shared the guy and had an MFF

[Heartless Herptile]

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Maybe you just shouldn't tell them anything you're not willing to let everyone else know. I think that's not easy to do, especially if you have something special and you want to share it with someone (usually the best friend) but not everyone. We sometimes have secrets that we don't tell to anyone.

[guile42]

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kapag na insecure sayo ang bestfriend mo yari ka...

[Heartless Herptile]

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Tagal ko na hindi nakakausap yung guy best friend ko (nasa abroad kasi). Magkikita naman kami ng girl best friend ko bukas. Ano kaya mapag-uusapan namin? Whatever it is, siguradong makabuluhan naman.

[miszbetty]

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pero best friend prin b ang 2ring nyo sa isat isa ung (nasa abroad?)

[Heartless Herptile]

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pero best friend prin b ang 2ring nyo sa isat isa ung (nasa abroad?)

Yes. Nagkakilala kami kasi mahilig kami sa reptiles. As time went on we talked about other things other than reptiles. Ngayon naman nag-uusap pa rin naman kami via FB or YM.

[lovemae]

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i had girl best friend too..super we both comfortable with each other but like the other said that sometimes we have secrets that we don't like anyone to know.

[Heartless Herptile]

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Meron din akong girl best friend. I can be myself around her.

[PatientElle®]

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I trust him with my life. (My best friend is a guy). Although society would look at us and surmise that we're more than friends, WE know we're not. Platonic friendship exists. He knows my story and I know his. He knows my principles and he respect me more than anyone and vice versa.