Then fine stay stuck at your situation. No one is forcing you to makipaghiwalay ka sa kanya.Di pahirapan mo buhay mo, ayos lang yun. Di naman namin buhay yan.
Ikaw naman nagpapakomplika ng situation mo. Tama sabi ng mga taong nagadvise dito sayo tapos yung nagawa mo na yung tama, kaunting sat-sat lang diyan sa loko-lokong lalakeng yan naawa ka naman.
Ate, life is not going to be soft on you if you choose to love this married guy.
I have kids of my own, and sometimes I watch them sleep and pray to God that I want them to grow up like good people. Im sure na yan din ang sinabi ng nanay ng mga anak ng kabit mo.
Look at what you have become ate, a mistress. Tell me, what dignity have you got left in facing your family and facing God? For what, for just one guy? All you have to do is sacrifice a little bit of your life to save an entire family and still selfishness mo pinapairal mo.
If you choose him, you destory both your soul and his family. You sacrifice him and you save yourself and an entire family from destroying themselves.
The point in this test ate is learning to let go of something you value most with your pride. In return, God will give you a wisdom of understanding, an understanding that not everything in this world can be yours, then through time he will rebuild you a world much more wonderful that what you have.
Your fear and doubts will disapper because you taught yourself to let go. If you keep him, you've just taught yourself selfishness kasi madamot ka sa buhay kaya ang buhay magiging madamot sayo, that will corrupt your soul and destory a family in the process.
Do not forget to be a Christian. It's very important that people know who they are. Part of being a Christian is protecting yourself from corrupting your soul to the point of sacrificing even the most difficult part of your life. The end result is forgiveness, wisdom, and most important life. New life for his family and a new life for your own.
Ate, there are much more important things in this world than romatic love, and that is giving life. Love ate never destroys, tandaan mo yan, it creates. If you keep him, you destroy. Tell me is that love? No it's selfishness nothing more. In the end what destroyed you was your selfishness.
This holy week I'm going to teach you something very important that only a few people in this world know.
Do you know why Jesus Christ died in the cross?
Answer: Because he wants us to learn not to fear death even in the face of evil. Jesus remained faithful to the end when so much evil surrounds him and that's why the Devil was pissed that day. Remember, Jesus was a called "Rabbi" meaning "teacher", so even at his death bed he was teaching us a valuable lesson. Never fear death.
So ate, I want you to emulate Jesus. Do not fear if you let go of this guy, instead fear that your soul be corrupted of evil because of this guy. Your soul, our soul, is far more important than our feelings even our lives. This is what makes us who we are. this is who you are. Like me and you.
Never forget ate, you are a Christian, born of spirit and dies as a spirit. This is your strength, do not make it your weakness. Evil will tempt you many times over, but if you overcame it, you have not lost your humanity. When you face God someday, I know he'll say "Well done my child."
Let go of doubt, fear and anger inside you and you will become stronger than you are before.
