NEED HELP! about LOVE :)

[LjenD1991]

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Pahelp naman guys, I need some1 to talk about this. I hope you can help me!

I think i was falling in love with my boss! Hindi naman literal na boss kasi I'm not yet hired as a casual employee. OJT student kasi ako sa isang medyo malaking inc. somwhere in QC. Dun nagstart, pero syempre I considered him na rin as my boss. Tapos na ko sa OJT ko 2 weeks ago, kaya hindi na ko pumupunta dun sa office, kaso lang parang naiwan naman yung puso ko dun!  Hahaha! I can't believe i say this! (Laugh!) Anyway, so yun nga, i think i'm falling inlove with him na.. it was happened kasi na almost 3 mos. din akong nagOJT dun with my friend/classmate. dun sa 3 mos. na yun, almost everyday namen kasabay yung mga boss namen, of course pati sya. tapos konti lang kame, kasi yung iba sa office lang kumakaen while kame sa labas ng office palagi. so from that, i've got a chance to know him better, to talked with him a lot.. about his life, about anything/everything. Tapos yun, nagising nalang ako isang araw parang ang sigla ko nalang pumasok dun sa OJT ko, naiisip ko sya, naeexcite akong makita sya at magLunchtime na! hahaha! tapos minsan nga, gusto ko magextend hours para nakakasabay namen sila umuwi kaya lang hindi naman pwede kasi may klase pa ko that night. Sayang nga e, kasi sa bulacan sya umuuwi. matagal tagal din kwentuhan yun! hehehe! Let's back to my problem. Humahaba na to pero hindi ko pa nasasabi ang problema ko, so to make it short, yun nga, problema ko kasi mahal ko na yung boss namen, ano bang dapat kong gawin? Binata naman sya, alam ko yun, kaso ang isa ko pang problema medyo malaki na yung age gap namen, though i believe that AGE DOESN'T REALLY MATTER! siguro let say 10 years gap? or more than that... So yun, advice naman. Thank you guys! I'll wait. Here. in the corner. xoxo! :*

[myrr]

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hmm, is it a one way feeling? wth what u posted kc prng puro feelings m lng.. there's nothing wrong nmn to be inlove e, kso see first kng gnun dn b xa sau.. mhrp kc umasa.. aun

[san kana basha]

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kng wla nmn masama
go

[LjenD1991]

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@Myrr.

Oo nga no? sa totoo lang hindi ko alam kung anung nararamdaman nya, siguro wala. wala kong nkikitang posibilities sakanya e. Haaaay.. anong gagawin ko? Kakalimutan ko nalang ba sya? Or pwede ko bang sabihin? kaya lang paano naman? Di ba nakakahiya?  Thanks po sa reply.

[san kana basha]

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lam mo te'd
kng yung age nga di matter ee anu pa kaya ung feelings
lam mo parang pagkain lng yaan ng tinapay
kng di nya kakagatin di nya malalasahan

basta walng lason ha!!!!!

isa pa remember this marame kase wala nito at di marunong
ACCEPTANCE OK

[myrr]

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nkkhya nga na sbhn yn pero nsa sau pdn nmn yn e, if u think ul live a life of "what if's" then u knw what to do:)

[cho]

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just stay and be with him ngayon, tapos na OJT niyo, just maintain the relationship you have with him. do you get what i mean? you started as friends so be a friend to him. keep what you have right now and along the way, things may work out between you and him. you don't necessarily have to tell him your feelings but eventually aabot din kayo sa ganun as time goes by. love grows as i always say love blooms from courses through time and it is always from a relationship between two people. strangers don't fall in love right away. diba? make friends, get to know, and build up the relationship and eventually realization comes in to play na you love each other.

he's the guy, if he feels the same for you then he'll work things out to make it happen. just be there for him for now and time will come na magkaka-alaman din kayo

[DocEdd]

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@ Myrr:

Smart observation. Yes, “Myrr” was right. What you feel does not equal what he feels, that rarely happens. Very rare. Do not assume that what he also says equals what he is, that also rarely is correct.

@ Ljenn:

Following “Myrr’s” statement, you have to spend a little more time with this guy. Remember, any guy can say anything just to impress a girl they like, anything, and I know girls know that.

If you show any interest with this guy, that will give him an advantage to abuse it and use it against you. Men are naturally war-breed during the old times so it’s natural for us to look for signs that can have advantage over our target. Women do not know that because they are not much of a “war-freaks” like us.

So if you want to know who he really is, give him a challenge. Pressure him to come to you. Do not make it easy for him to get you. This is the best way to know a guy who is courting you.

During the pre-historic times, women naturally chose men who have the physique to defend and provide for them so as a result, they have strong children. In the medieval times, the strongest knight usually gets the princess because he went through a tough battle against many knights.   

During my father’s time, he used to tell me that he went through a lot of trouble just to get to know my mother. My grandfather was very strict when it comes to his daughter so the one who went through a lot of suffering and lasted from him usually gets my mother.

My grandfather believed that the amount of suffering a man endured to get his prize is equal to the amount of love he has for my mother, and he was right. It makes sense really because if you want something so badly, you’ll go to any lengths to pursue it even if it means suffering endlessly.

My grandfather never believed in “haranas” or “flower giving” because men can use that to manipulate people. He believes in action combined with words is a much more suitable sense in measuring someone’s honesty.

It’s like choosing a leader, do not believe only in his speech, look closely to his actions, skills, and abilities too. If what he can do shows him that he’s a competent leader then most of what he says is honest.

Now, women are falling for false words and promises, they believe anything any guy would say just because it makes them “feel” good. That’s how they look at love, “feelings” which is probably mislead you more times than it’ll help you. Words without action is nonsense.

Even Casanova, one of the greatest “ladie’s man” believes in choosing the right person to love.

“If I had married a woman intelligent enough to guide me, to rule me without my feeling that I was ruled, I should have taken good care of my money, I should have had children, and I should not be, as now I am, alone in the world and possessing nothing.” – Giacomo Casanova

If you’re not familiar with this guy, I suggest you read his life story on Wikipedia. You’ll learn a lot from his mistakes. I read his life like twice already and I really learned a lot.

Remember this well, nothing beats “old school” style when it comes to choosing the right person and knowing someone’s honesty. Nothing.
 
 

[myrr]

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tama:)