what should i do????need advice thanks

[swt_pnay]

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i shouldnt feel this way but cant stop my self....

bakit ganon....the feelings i had for my ex bf kept coming back....na hindi dapat coz were both married now and have our own child...m here in canada and he's in pinas....everyday i kept looking at his friendster account pati ung account ng wife nya....na hidi ako makapaniwala na i let him go..nga ngayon ko lang na re realized....is it coz he's happy now and m not. on how my life turned out....when we went home last 2004 para sa debu ko he tried his best to win me back...but i ignored him...coz that time i was deeply inlove with my husband now...my ex bf pinsan sya ng asawa ng tita ko...were all planning to go back home next yr...pag .uwi ko sana noong 2004 kahit na bata palang kami noon plano na naming magpakasal pagbalik ko..tapos ipagpapatuloy ko ang pagaaral ko sa pinas juz foe us to be together...pero walang natupad doon...90% of it is my fault and now m paying foe it...we only live once in this world, and theres a lot of things in my life na gusto kong baguhin or ibalik ang dati but i cant....what hurts more is that i need to pretend m happy.....i have no choice but to live and spend the rest of my life with him foe the sake of my baby....and sa mga tao sa family ko..that i made the ryt choice.....all of my family and relatives gustong gusto nila ung ex bf kow para sakin and same thing goes with his family...and now m paying the price foe not listening to my parents and relatives...pero ano ba dapat gawin???sasabog na tong dibdib ko sa sakit at sama ng loob...m hoping na sana kahit papano he still thinks of me..kaya nga xcited akong umuwi next yr...

[DocEdd]

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I’m sorry that you’re feeling that way. There’re times where one point in our life when we truly want something so bad we’re willing to risk everything. The past is sometimes the best place to be because it makes us very happy. It makes us whole. But I want you to read this,

We must accept in our life that not everything in this world will be given to us.

It’s sad but true. This is one of the greatest truth that we have to accept that even though we ask for something so bad, even though that thing is so precious, we can never have it. This is a lesson we have to face. Why? Because it makes us strong. God never wants us to be weak. He never wants us to depend on something for the rest of our lives. We have to be independent and learn how to get up on our own.

Life is a series of struggles and each of us must be willing to share that struggle.

Yes, you, me and everyone. All of us has a struggle to face. A struggle to learn from. A struggle to live for. This maybe yours. You may live to the fact that your memories of your ex-boyfriend may live on in yourself for the rest of your life. Do you know why? Because it’s part of who you are. Life is reminding you of your identity, of your small happiness that you spend with him in the past that is forever imbedded in your heart. It’s because life knows that this will give you strength that will pull you through your rough times.

Life is unfair.

Lastly, life is very unfair. Yes. It always was. This is the last truth that you have to realize. He might be happy, and you’re not but the truth is, that’s life. It’s unfair. If you really love this guy as much as you say you do, wish him the best life that he could live for and hope that he’ll be happy with his family. That’s all you can do.

So “swt_pnay” get up and become strong. Accept your struggles and let go of the past. It’s already gone. You can’t change it even if you want to. I’m sure deep down inside of him, he still thinks of you. Do you know why I know that? It’s because some time in his life, you became part of his heart and he’ll never forget that small time he spend with you.

[pinoy_usa]

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Stop and avoid things that will let you get closer to him. Accept and put into your mind that its impossible to be with him coz your married now. Think of your baby and your husband.  

[swt_pnay]

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@docedd...
thank u....
i know...no matter wot i do now i can  never bring back the past...he will always be part of my past and memories...sinced i chosed to be with my husband n not with him..all i can do now is cry and regret....i guess karma is a beyatch...m juz hoping that GOD will give me a 2nd chance to live after this lifetime...and when that happens i will try to live a better life...
i dunno i guess itz coz i got married when i was 19 m only 24 weve been married foe 5 yrs over all weve been together foe 8 yrs...i hope n pray that GOD will take away the feelings that i have foe my ex bf and bring back the love that i felt when i first met my husband...again thanks...i feel a lot better now coz i was able to tell what m feelin inside of meh...thank u...


@pinoy_usa,..thanks...
m trying my hardest...but u know its hard...i hope GOD will have me to forget and move on ...

[mykeldm22]

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hindi na siguro uso ang maging martir sa nararamdaman natin, hayaan natin ang puso ang mag dikta kung ano o san tayo magiging masaya, kung alam mo mahal mo sya, sge gawin mo at sabihin mo sa kanya, pero alamin mo rin ang fact na mangyayari after that...

kung balak mo umuwi for him gawin mo, para mapanatag na ang loob mo at mabigyan ng closure ang lahat ng nararamdaman mong hirap...

yap 1nce in a life time lang tayo mabubuhay, kaya dapat ay sulitin nating ang hiram nating buhay at gawin itong makulay...