is it ok to let your boyfriend touch you?

[ü Kezz ü]

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waaa~ ask qu luhn po mga ate aa?
first time qu po kasi magka boyfriend last month.

so natural, ala aqung kaalam-alam.
he's my best friend. and 3 years na kmi classmates.

we're on our senior year in high school now.

ano kc ee, una, he asked for my first kiss, syempre di qu binigay kaagad.
pinatagal qu pa. tas aun! >.<

then now, gusto niyang mahawakan yung boobs ko.
but he asks for permission naman ee.

okie lang po ba na e.allow qu siyang humawak sken?
di qu po alam ee if tama ba. >.<

[bhabyJELLYace]

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sakin po hndi po tama un. ewan ko. basta mali po un in my case [NBSB po ako ee]

[DocEdd]

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Let me get this straight, this boyfriend of yours first asks for you first kiss and you gave it to him. Next, he asks if he could hold your boobs? This is common sense. I’ll bet the next he will ask is your virginity no doubt. And when you give it to him, he will ask you for even more.

I want you to read this carefully,

If you feed on people’s greed, you’ll spend your life feeding that person’s greed and still he won’t be satisfied. Do you know why? Because you can never satisfy greed.

In short, if you gave him something, he will ask for more until nothing will be left for you to give. The only question here is, what if you cannot anymore give him anything, will he still love you? The answer is obviously: No. Although in this scenario of yours, it’s not yet greed, it’s selfishness. But if you keep feeding on his desires, it will turn into greed. Remember, selfishness gives birth to greed.

So if you give in to this guy’s desires like letting you hold your boobs, then in the future he will ask you for more than holding your boobs. He will ask for sex. Then what? More sex. Then what? A child. Then what? A family. Can you picture what I’m trying to imagine here? If you give him more, he will ask for more until such a time he will have the tendency to leave you because you have nothing to offer. What do you have? A child, a family you don’t know how to handle and a life that is overtly full of struggles your not ready for (I’m only assuming here) or do you like to be a professional in the future like a doctor, a nurse, an engineer or a lawyer? Think about it.

So how do you solve your problem? Do not give in to his desires until the appropriate time which is marriage. Remember, everything has it’s time. And in your time, it’s your studies you should focus on if you want a bright future not relationships. It will come in your early twenties but not today. Why? Because you’re not ready on the consequences that will happen.

Love means respect and understanding.

If he really loves you then he will respect your wishes. Remember, love means respecting each other’s boundaries. Meaning, since you are still young, you have boundaries because you don’t want to end up with a scarred future and he must respect that. If he grumbles and disagrees with you, then that, my friend, is not the guy for you. And you must be ready for that.

So remember this, if you give in to his desires, he will ask for more. What’s the solution? Do not give in. It’s for your own good and his own.

[Serenoa]

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waaa~ ask qu luhn po mga ate aa?
first time qu po kasi magka boyfriend last month.

so natural, ala aqung kaalam-alam.
he's my best friend. and 3 years na kmi classmates.

we're on our senior year in high school now.

ano kc ee, una, he asked for my first kiss, syempre di qu binigay kaagad.
pinatagal qu pa. tas aun! >.<

then now, gusto niyang mahawakan yung boobs ko.
but he asks for permission naman ee.

okie lang po ba na e.allow qu siyang humawak sken?
di qu po alam ee if tama ba. >.<

touching of private parts is not good specially at your very young age. mas ok pa yung first kiss na lang kaysa magpahawak ka sa boobs. kasi it is just normal to kiss someone you love.

yung pagpahawak sa private parts kasi should be reserved in a long term, serious, romantic relationship where you have already developed that mutual trust and loyalty with each other.

[ü Kezz ü]

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thanks for the advice. ü

di po ako pumayag. i told him na di pa ako ready and that we're too young pa to be doing those kind of things.

sabi niya, naiintindihan naman daw niya. he respects my desicion and he's willing to wait for the right time.

[♥ tOXiC ♥]

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Huli n ata aq s topic hehe, btw, one kiss for pareng serenoa and docedd, kc very well said sila pareho...  Sa akin nman, tama lng n tumanggi ka dhil karapatan mu yan, bka s kabibigay mu jan s bf mu mawili yan cge k kw dn kawawa, sa ngayon enjoy nlng muna ang life wag k masyado magmadali, godbless!

[ü Kezz ü]

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Huli n ata aq s topic hehe, btw, one kiss for pareng serenoa and docedd, kc very well said sila pareho...  Sa akin nman, tama lng n tumanggi ka dhil karapatan mu yan, bka s kabibigay mu jan s bf mu mawili yan cge k kw dn kawawa, sa ngayon enjoy nlng muna ang life wag k masyado magmadali, godbless!

haha .. parang nga po ate pero thanks na din po sa advice niyu. ü