How to reject someone nicely?

[elu]

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  help naman!
I rejected him before,after that wala siyang sinabi
then after a few weeks may communication na naman kami.
Then feeling ko his courting me again!
pay patama kc sakin ung lahat ng pino-post niya sa fb!

[DocEdd]

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Calm down. Can you please tell the details? Please tell your age, and how did you rejected him.

[Serenoa]

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help naman!
I rejected him before,after that wala siyang sinabi
then after a few weeks may communication na naman kami.
Then feeling ko his courting me again!
pay patama kc sakin ung lahat ng pino-post niya sa fb!

technically, there is no way to reject someone nicely. kahit pa kasi sabihin mo yan in a very nice way, he or she would still treat you as someone hurting them. masasaktan at masasaktan pa rin yan kahit ano pa ang sabihin mo. so the best way is to tell the guy or the girl frankly that you are not meant for each other and that you simply do not feel anything.

kapag kasi hindi mo dinerekta, eh kukulitin ka ng kukulitin niyan kasi they would think na meron pa silang pag-asa.

[tempgirl]

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ate direchuhin mo na.

kung baga ione time bigtime mo na.

aasa lang ng aasa si kuya ung patweetums ka dyan.

rekta na para tigilan ka

[elu]

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Actually, before first signs of courtship pa lng.. sinabi ko na sa kanya na ayaw ko.
So akala ko ok na kami...kaya noong may communication na kami ulit same parin ung treatment ko towards him
I even asked for favors.

So PROBLEMA ko ngayon how can I tell him for the 2nd time?

[DocEdd]

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Miss you're clearly confused. You "feel" that he courts you? Isn't he just being nice? If you don't want to have a relationship then simply ignore him.

[elu]

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I will not seek for advice naman po  if alam  kong he’s just being friendly w/ me.But my intuition was saying that he's courting me, and I can’t simply ignore him because he was my senpai and also my friend.
Kaya nga I can tell na nagpapalipad hangin siya sa akin kc his sending me sweet messages.Pero sure naman po ako na alam niya ang score between us kc nga pina prangka ko naman siya
Pero tinatawanan niya lng.

[Serenoa]

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like i said, if i were in your situation i will tell him frankly like. "alam ko sweet ka pero let me just make it clear na hanggang friends lang tayo ha"  or "hmmmm mukhang sweet na sweet ka sa akin ha, siguraduhin mo lang na walang halong panliligaw yan kasi friends lang tayo".

or you can simply use one of my favorite lines. the first time i saw it was on a TV Commercial with Maricar Reyes where Maricar is trying to dump a guy and she says "it's not you, it's me"

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=it's+not+you,+it's+me

hahaha. Just kidding, basta DIREKTAHIN mo na iha.

[elu]

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 te,Charisma! great advice...hehe

salamat po sa mga nag advice^_^

[misSHAI'87]

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May mga tao talagang makukulit, hindi marunong sumuko. Kung ako sayo, wag kang papadala sa konsensiya mo, alam ko nakokonsensya ka sa kanyang mga pagpapatama sa fb. Hayaan mo siya kasi buhay nya yan. Hindi mo naman kasalanan na di mo siya magustuhan. Basta tell him what you really feel. Kung di mo siya type e di sabihin mo na di mo siya feel o kaya sabihin mo sorry may bf na ako..ganun lang. Kung mangulit pa, edi bahala na siya jan,basta wag kang makokonsensiya,haha!

[^grazzy03^]

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korek k dyan misSHAI'87..hinde dpat mgpdla s konsensiya..ahaha..galing mo magpayo ah..prang pingdaan mo n lhat un ah..ahahaa..=)

[misSHAI'87]

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korek k dyan misSHAI'87..hinde dpat mgpdla s konsensiya..ahaha..galing mo magpayo ah..prang pingdaan mo n lhat un ah..ahahaa..=)

nagkaroon din kasi akong suitor gaya niya, makulit din at sa fb din un. Wala akong konsensiya sa taong di ko type, lol feeler! nyahaha

[^grazzy03^]

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nagkaroon din kasi akong suitor gaya niya, makulit din at sa fb din un. Wala akong konsensiya sa taong di ko type, lol feeler! nyahaha

ahahaha..ahh, kya pla..tlga lng? wla kng konsensiya s taong hnde mo type..ie panu kung hnde sya sumuko sau,.ggwin nya lhat pra mpasagot k nya..ahahaha..syempre my mga ganun tao db?ahaha..cge nga ano ggwin mo?=)

[misSHAI'87]

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e teka ba't ako ang tinatanong mo, di ko naman thread to? lol kaw ha, umi-istyle ka!

actually nadadala naman talaga ako sa makulit basta type ko din, pero minsan kahit makulit pa ung tao kung di ko naman type wala pa rin yun.. nasa sayo lang naman yan.
cge na ot na tayo.. heheh

[^grazzy03^]

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wahaha..oo nga nman d mo toh thread..sori nman..ahahaha..nttawa aq s mga banat mo..ang kulit..ahahah..gus2 q lng sna mkipagkaibigan..=)