guys.. sa tingin niyo mahal pb niya q?

[ms.greedy]

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   hello.

   im worried na kc sa status ng relationship namin.. he text me ones a week nlng.. ei alam q ala pa xang work.. tpos qng magkatext kami lage pa kmi nag-aaway.
 he doesn't even says me  goodnyt b4 he went to sleep... haixt.
martir naba aq sa taong to?.. help me naman . do i need to stay this relationship?.. .

[san kana basha]

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dnt make a desisyon!!!
kng dika sigurado

pagusapan
pagisipan
at higit sa lahat

alamin mokng tama paba o mali na
!!!wag ka dapat mapusok ok

wagkadin matakot dahil
marame pa nmn iba pero
wagkadin mapusok kase
baka magsisi ka
kaya dapat personaly
confrontation ok!!!:)

[Dune.Kitty]

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   hello.

   im worried na kc sa status ng relationship namin.. he text me ones a week nlng.. ei alam q ala pa xang work.. tpos qng magkatext kami lage pa kmi nag-aaway.
 he doesn't even says me  goodnyt b4 he went to sleep... haixt.
martir naba aq sa taong to?.. help me naman . do i need to stay this relationship?.. .

if I still remember ikaw din yong nag asked regarding to have sex and pregnancy stuff. All I can say sa sinabi mo ngayon is, YOU WERE SCREWED! 

[DocEdd]

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Please don’t criticize her. She asks for help so it will be very wise to give her some appreciation. All of us make mistakes.

You said that your BF texts you once a week and whenever he texts you, you two are fighting. And you also say that he doesn’t even say good night to you?

First of all, calm down and do not worry. Studies have shown that worrying kills more than diseases so don’t ignore your health. Second thing I want to point out, 90% of couples fight all the time, 10% of effective couples sit down and talk about their problems. I advise you to follow the 10%.

The third thing I want to point out is do not expect anything from your BF. The moment that you said “He doesn’t even say good night anymore” clearly states that you’re expecting something from him. I advise you not to. Why? Because you’ll be more angry if you don’t get your expectation which leads to more fighting. Believe me anger is less than useless in a relationship so avoid being angry. It’s a communication barrier. You won’t know the problem if you two have enormous egos.

Here’s what you do: Give him space. Do not bug him for a while. Let him come to you. One of the mistakes girls do is chase their BFs when they see them “out of place”. If you would know the male Psyche, this is a major turn off for us. If you chase him more, it will backfire on you. He will be less interested in you.

When you two are texting avoid criticism of any kind like “Bakit hindi ka na nagte-text?! May iba ka noh!” or “Aminin mo, niloloko mo ako noh?!” Why? Again, it’s a communication barrier and you’ll anger your partner more which leads to misunderstanding and then more fighting then most probably, break up.

Now in your question “Does he still love you?” We don’t know. Only he knows that. That’s why when he tries to text you, talk to him in a calm manner like “Can we sit down and talk?”, “Do you have some time? Can we talk for a while?” or “I feel were not communicating that much anymore, is there a problem?”

And when you two are talking, LISTEN MORE TALK LESS. Guys loves girls who listen to their problem. Again, avoid any criticism on your conversation and do not fight. Also try to add the words “Sorry”, “Please”, or “Thank you”. These are small words but accomplish much.  Most importantly, if you got your answer, whether it’s good or bad, be ready.  

Lastly, do not conclude if he has another girl. You don't know that yet. That's another mistake that can flare up another fight.

[marpil]

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wag kang paranoid.. may mga lalake talagang hindi mahilig magtext pero wag mong i-set aside ang posibility na mayroong problema talaga... just be ready for anything to happen..

[ms.greedy]

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if I still remember ikaw din yong nag asked regarding to have sex and pregnancy stuff. All I can say sa sinabi mo ngayon is, YOU WERE SCREWED! 

..UHMMM aq mapikon sau? humanda ka xkin.
 qng ganun na tlga kababa paningin mo sakin .. well bhala ka! .kla q pa naman o ka. halos sa lhat ng post q pag ikaw nka reply lage nlng aq nasasaktan, bat ganyan kba skin ha?

[ROMANTICOL]

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dali lang yan kausapin mo ung BF mo tawagan mo or kung alam mo ang bahay puntahan mo kausapin mo nang mabuti... ikaw den hirap kaya mag pakatanga sa isang tao!! kung ako sayo mag aral ka muna o kaya mag work. wag kang mag isip nang BF nako nandyan lang naman ang mga guy... kita mo ako di ako nag mamadali sa mga babae kase meron nararapat para sa ateng buhay ok!! sana nakatulong ako sa prob mo... 

[josh0602]

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The best way to know is to ask him. Huwag ka magssume ng negative agad or something. Baka kasi he's going through a hard time and ayaw lang niya muna maging open about it. Ask him na lang..don't have second thoughts of leaving the relationship immediately. It's better if you sit down with him and talk. Malay mo, this is the time when he really needs you.

[ms.greedy]

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dali lang yan kausapin mo ung BF mo tawagan mo or kung alam mo ang bahay puntahan mo kausapin mo nang mabuti... ikaw den hirap kaya mag pakatanga sa isang tao!! kung ako sayo mag aral ka muna o kaya mag work. wag kang mag isip nang BF nako nandyan lang naman ang mga guy... kita mo ako di ako nag mamadali sa mga babae kase meron nararapat para sa ateng buhay ok!! sana nakatulong ako sa prob mo... 

thnx poh ahhh

[san kana basha]

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wag kase toyo ok!be mature ika nga

[BSPJ TSUKI]

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   hello.

   im worried na kc sa status ng relationship namin.. he text me ones a week nlng.. ei alam q ala pa xang work.. tpos qng magkatext kami lage pa kmi nag-aaway.
 he doesn't even says me  goodnyt b4 he went to sleep... haixt.
martir naba aq sa taong to?.. help me naman . do i need to stay this relationship?.. .

alam mo frend. Minsan dyan tyo nloloka sa mga pg.iicp na kung anu.anu. Minsan pnapangunahan pa ntn ung hndi pa ngyari. Sana minsan pwde ba ntn lgyan ng tiwala at panahon sa pg.iicp ang isat.isa? Tao at my sriling pg.iicp ang bf mo. Kun my gus2 xang gawin hyaan mo xa. Kun alam mong my problma. Kaw na lumapit at ibigay ang balikat mo kun xay naiiyak. Wag mo muna xang ipresure, bka lalu xang lalayu kun ganyan. Ang isang rlaxon na kgaya nnyo ay hndi pa final sa isang s2rya kyo ay sa stage pa lng ng pkkpgkilala. Kun mahal mo tlga xa dpat alam mong lumagay sa kun san ka tlga sa puso nya. Mhrap man pro kailangan mgkaintndhan kyo dlwa.

[Dune.Kitty]

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..UHMMM aq mapikon sau? humanda ka xkin.
 qng ganun na tlga kababa paningin mo sakin .. well bhala ka! .kla q pa naman o ka. halos sa lhat ng post q pag ikaw nka reply lage nlng aq nasasaktan, bat ganyan kba skin ha?

Nasasaktan? ROFLMAO! Ano sige mapikon ka anong gagawin mo ipapagulpi mo ako sa BF mo? Sige PM mo ako set tayo ng lugar at gulpihin niyo ako. Are you threatening me? Wala akong mga brotherhood na maipagmamalaki tulad ng iba dyan na matapang kasi mga cry baby, mommy mommy kihuna toy ko. Sus! 

[cho]

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Nasasaktan? ROFLMAO! Ano sige mapikon ka anong gagawin mo ipapagulpi mo ako sa BF mo? Sige PM mo ako set tayo ng lugar at gulpihin niyo ako. Are you threatening me? Wala akong mga brotherhood na maipagmamalaki tulad ng iba dyan na matapang kasi mga cry baby, mommy mommy kihuna toy ko. Sus! 

brad, konting respeto naman sa kanya

[vulnerableGurl]

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huwag kang maghabol sa kanya girl...find another one nah...meaning niyan siguro ayaw na niya...

or kung gusto mo kausapin mo siya ng harapan...confront him!ask him wat happened already?those kinda things...

[echusero]

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kalimutan mo sya... dpat ikaw hinahabol hindi ikaw ang nag hahabol