i need to get a matured man's opinion

[sweetsting]

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i was new here..i'm kinda desperate...i had an affair for almost two years, he's so much married, have a good career in a well established company.  He's 44 yrs old and i'm 24, am married.  Our affair is doin good..i can feel his love though he wasn't able to make it feel the way i do considering he's too matured a guess for sweet nothing but that's ok with me..we work at the same company before but i resigned.  We have constant communication and we use to see each other at least once a month.  Until this month na nagpaalam siya for an OB na the company is sending him to Japan..just don't know i feel so suspicious bout it.  then nakausap ko yung close friend ko before sa company na yun, then i ask if there are employees for seminar or convention sa japan this september, she checked then wala daw. I start askin my man then he send me the itinerary ticket. i forward it to my friend for the confirmation and it's not an official business. It is paid in cash and flight is scheduled on sunday knowing that company doesn't pay in cash and the travel agency is not connected with the company.  then i proved na everything is a lie..i asked him sino kasama niya he didn't answer me right..i ask kung yung ex niya na kaofficemate nya, he just say hindi iyon ang kasma niya,, he just don't wanna speak up..then he suddenly let go of me just like that.....to my fury i called agad yung wife niya tellin bout it na yung trip is not an OB and maybe he's with someonelse...finally he replied tellin me na he was looking for a work in japan or just a lame excuse but too late...alam na ng asawa niya..to top it off i send naked pix of him sa wife niya..it was so painful kasi to know he's fooling me how long na niloloko niya ko or what! though i really feel na minahal niya ko, pero ako i open evrything sa kanya, if that trip is looking work abroad dapat sinabi na niya dati pa..pero nung nabuko sya he suddenly let go of me, so i can't blame myself sa nagawa ko ruin his family and trip..don't even know if it's right i just wanna get even! pero feeling ko kulang pa ginawa ko for all the lies and betrayal na ginawa niya..but inspite ng nangyari i still love him..he told me na wag ako magalala kasi he won't do the same thing because he loved me....pero i guess malabo na maayos, and there are lots of question hanging na i know hindi niya balak sagutin..pain dwells in me and i still wanna revenge to ease the pain...help........................ i don't wanna be self destructive

[fox]

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i was new here..i'm kinda desperate...i had an affair for almost two years, he's so much married, have a good career in a well established company.  He's 44 yrs old and i'm 24, am married.  Our affair is doin good..i can feel his love though he wasn't able to make it feel the way i do considering he's too matured a guess for sweet nothing but that's ok with me..we work at the same company before but i resigned.  We have constant communication and we use to see each other at least once a month.  Until this month na nagpaalam siya for an OB na the company is sending him to Japan..just don't know i feel so suspicious bout it.  then nakausap ko yung close friend ko before sa company na yun, then i ask if there are employees for seminar or convention sa japan this september, she checked then wala daw. I start askin my man then he send me the itinerary ticket. i forward it to my friend for the confirmation and it's not an official business. It is paid in cash and flight is scheduled on sunday knowing that company doesn't pay in cash and the travel agency is not connected with the company.  then i proved na everything is a lie..i asked him sino kasama niya he didn't answer me right..i ask kung yung ex niya na kaofficemate nya, he just say hindi iyon ang kasma niya,, he just don't wanna speak up..then he suddenly let go of me just like that.....to my fury i called agad yung wife niya tellin bout it na yung trip is not an OB and maybe he's with someonelse...finally he replied tellin me na he was looking for a work in japan or just a lame excuse but too late...alam na ng asawa niya..to top it off i send naked pix of him sa wife niya..it was so painful kasi to know he's fooling me how long na niloloko niya ko or what! though i really feel na minahal niya ko, pero ako i open evrything sa kanya, if that trip is looking work abroad dapat sinabi na niya dati pa..pero nung nabuko sya he suddenly let go of me, so i can't blame myself sa nagawa ko ruin his family and trip..don't even know if it's right i just wanna get even! pero feeling ko kulang pa ginawa ko for all the lies and betrayal na ginawa niya..but inspite ng nangyari i still love him..he told me na wag ako magalala kasi he won't do the same thing because he loved me....pero i guess malabo na maayos, and there are lots of question hanging na i know hindi niya balak sagutin..pain dwells in me and i still wanna revenge to ease the pain...help........................ i don't wanna be self destructive

sweetsting

alam mo naman from the very beginning commited na yung guy na kinakasama mo.Ano ba ang inexpect mong mangyari? iwanan nya yung wife nya at ikaw ang pakisamahan?Thats not the case sweet, kung gusto nya ng ganun sana iniwanan nya muna yung family nya at ikaw ang pinakisamahan.
Perhaps yung trip nya sa Japan is help him think, give him space, hindi lang ikaw ang mundo nya. be a little considerate.
Sa ginawa mo you ruin him and his family. sino ba ang nanalo? ikaw ba? I don't think so, look at you know? i dont want to judge you, you felt in love in him.

[fox]

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Hayaan mo muna sya give him space, at least nagpaalam sya sayo di naglaho na parang bula.
di ka naman nya binibitawan remember?
What it done is done.di mo na maibabalik yun. You just Hope for the best.
Pero kung wala na talaga, you must learn to LET GO. ganyan talaga ang buhay.
Your still very much single di ba?  

[sweetsting]

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@fox - yeah i did fell so bad so i did it....pain is just to much nung malaman ko bout the trip na hindi OB what hurt me the most is di ko alam kung ibang babae ang kasama niya dun instead na magexplain siya iintindihin ko naman he left me just like that! two years down to drain!

[sweetsting]

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Hayaan mo muna sya give him space, at least nagpaalam sya sayo di naglaho na parang bula.
di ka naman nya binibitawan remember?
What it done is done.di mo na maibabalik yun. You just Hope for the best.
Pero kung wala na talaga, you must learn to LET GO. ganyan talaga ang buhay.
Your still very much single di ba?  

am not single,,,am also married..
sobra ko nasaktan so i made that revenge..pero feeling ko kulang pa yun!

[misSHAI'87]

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i think everythings not right..both of u are already married?? so 2 years ung bawal nyong relasyon? mabuti at ok lang sa asawa nya?! nalilito ako sa prob mo sis..lam mo kung ako sayo ayusin mo muna relasyon mo with ur husband bago ka magproblema jan sa kabit mo. peace

ai matured man's opinion pla,hahah!

[fox]

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am not single,,,am also married..
sobra ko nasaktan so i made that revenge..pero feeling ko kulang pa yun!

ow married ka rin pala, sorry, so what happen to your marriage? separated na?
mag subside din yan galit mo. naintindihan kita bakit ka nagaglit. di lang sa kanya sa sarili mo at sa ibang tao. right? kasi feeling mo talunan ka sa lahat ng bagay. think about it and pray to God na liwanagin ang isipan mo.

[sweetsting]

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ow married ka rin pala, sorry, so what happen to your marriage? separated na?
mag subside din yan galit mo. naintindihan kita bakit ka nagaglit. di lang sa kanya sa sarili mo at sa ibang tao. right? kasi feeling mo talunan ka sa lahat ng bagay. think about it and pray to God na liwanagin ang isipan mo.

@fox
yeah...at that moment sobra talaga ko nagalit kaya nagawa kong ipaalam sa asawa niya..worst is imbes na umamin is he let go just like that without na parang wala lang..he wants to escaped from the lies he did...kaya sobra galit ko..lalo na pa iniisip ko na nasa japan siya with other woman, and napaniwala at niloko niya asawa niya kaya siya pinayagan...habang ako sobrang nasaktan and galit sa kanya..though i tried to forget anger and pain hunts me...gusto ko siya matuto ng leksyong hindi niya malilimutan....na hindi lahat ng babae eh iiyak at pwede niyang paglaruan..

[astroboy]

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^you don't need a matured opinion though, what you need is a doctor. Specialize in love  peace

[josh0602]

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Initially, the relationship is already wrong. So, what's the point of getting even and seeking vengeance? There's no benefit from that because it will not bring him back to you. Remember that he has a family..think of his wife and especially his kids. I hope you just learn from this experience and let this make you a better person in understanding relationships and such, not to destroy you.

[Dune.Kitty]

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i was new here..i'm kinda desperate...i had an affair for almost two years, he's so much married, have a good career in a well established company.  He's 44 yrs old and i'm 24, am married.  Our affair is doin good..i can feel his love though he wasn't able to make it feel the way i do considering he's too matured a guess for sweet nothing but that's ok with me..we work at the same company before but i resigned.  We have constant communication and we use to see each other at least once a month.  Until this month na nagpaalam siya for an OB na the company is sending him to Japan..just don't know i feel so suspicious bout it.  then nakausap ko yung close friend ko before sa company na yun, then i ask if there are employees for seminar or convention sa japan this september, she checked then wala daw. I start askin my man then he send me the itinerary ticket. i forward it to my friend for the confirmation and it's not an official business. It is paid in cash and flight is scheduled on sunday knowing that company doesn't pay in cash and the travel agency is not connected with the company.  then i proved na everything is a lie..i asked him sino kasama niya he didn't answer me right..i ask kung yung ex niya na kaofficemate nya, he just say hindi iyon ang kasma niya,, he just don't wanna speak up..then he suddenly let go of me just like that.....to my fury i called agad yung wife niya tellin bout it na yung trip is not an OB and maybe he's with someonelse...finally he replied tellin me na he was looking for a work in japan or just a lame excuse but too late...alam na ng asawa niya..to top it off i send naked pix of him sa wife niya..it was so painful kasi to know he's fooling me how long na niloloko niya ko or what! though i really feel na minahal niya ko, pero ako i open evrything sa kanya, if that trip is looking work abroad dapat sinabi na niya dati pa..pero nung nabuko sya he suddenly let go of me, so i can't blame myself sa nagawa ko ruin his family and trip..don't even know if it's right i just wanna get even! pero feeling ko kulang pa ginawa ko for all the lies and betrayal na ginawa niya..but inspite ng nangyari i still love him..he told me na wag ako magalala kasi he won't do the same thing because he loved me....pero i guess malabo na maayos, and there are lots of question hanging na i know hindi niya balak sagutin..pain dwells in me and i still wanna revenge to ease the pain...help........................ i don't wanna be self destructive

You are an butas ng puwit and a stupid moron. That's it, you are one of the twisted people who needs to die and shouldn't deserve to exist. I despise your kind.

[pastor paradox]

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You are an butas ng puwit and a stupid moron. That's it, you are one of the twisted people who needs to die and shouldn't deserve to exist. I despise your kind.

LMFAO
I see you are master with words mystro
Nothing like being blunt and direct to the point.
Obviously she is a psycho beyatch that meanwhile thinks it is fine to fuk around on her husband.
But when her lover who is fuking around on his wife, fuks around with anyone else besides her, well then there is a problem.
Fuking hilarious

[sweetsting]

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You are an butas ng puwit and a stupid moron. That's it, you are one of the twisted people who needs to die and shouldn't deserve to exist. I despise your kind.

haha.. i pity you....
sounds like so bitter huh?
so good that a beyatch broke your heart into pieces!
guess what? you can never put your heart into pieces cause
you deserve much worst that!!
hahahahahahah.....
and for me? oh well.... i just keep gettin better!

and to all the peeps who commented!
thank you very much!
glad to say that after a weeks i was back to my sanity and doin the right thing!

[sweetsting]

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Initially, the relationship is already wrong. So, what's the point of getting even and seeking vengeance? There's no benefit from that because it will not bring him back to you. Remember that he has a family..think of his wife and especially his kids. I hope you just learn from this experience and let this make you a better person in understanding relationships and such, not to destroy you.

yeah i've learned a lot...
i guess everybody goes into experience like this..
kinda so vulnerable that's why i was caught in a bad romance..
anyway doin better now! thanks!

[sweetsting]

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LMFAO
I see you are master with words mystro
Nothing like being blunt and direct to the point.
Obviously she is a psycho beyatch that meanwhile thinks it is fine to fuk around on her husband.
But when her lover who is fuking around on his wife, fuks around with anyone else besides her, well then there is a problem.
Fuking hilarious

and your a fuckin' butas ng puwit!
who's mouth is bigger than his dick!!!
go back to your momma butas ng puwit
and ask her to teach you good manners
and how not to butt in if you have non-sense to say...
tsk..tsk..tsk,,,
mas nakakakaawa ka...
watch ur words it reflect who you are...
lowest of low.....

magpakatotoo ka nga!
it was not me who gone trough in this situation..
and it can happen to you..
you might not know someone's fuckin you now...............