GUYS: na naka experience ng mag two timer... help me naman oh

[bruised_and_burned]

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it's not only about the morality issue. mr. paradox. and i am not saying that i am righteous. madami din akong flaws and there were times that i've crossed the boundaries din.

ayan sis, sinabi na pala sa yo na wala kang aasahan. it means that you are wasting your precious time, effort, love with him. masaya ka ngayon, oo...but papano na bukas? what happiness you are enjoying right now is superficial. i do not want to be a party pooper. pero sis, isipin mo lang mabuti, tama si mark that this guy has all the advantage. ang saya nya kasi he has 2 girls na alam nyang mahal na mahal sya. win-win situation. palagay ko (PALAGAY KO LANG PO HA), pareho nya kayong hindi mahal. walang ibang mahal yan kundi sarili nya. when you love someone, ang uunahin mo lagi is kung papano mo mapapasaya ang mahal mo and you will not do anything that you know na masasaktan mo ang mahal mo.

hindi lang ikaw sis ang nasa ganyang situation. i've been there myself. pero naisip ko nun na i have to go out of the relationship. God knows what struggle i had to go through para maka move on. it was very hard but with the help of my friends and loved ones i manage to stand up. there are people out there sis who will support you all the way. i know you have friends who will be willing to help you and support you.

i also agree with cho_romano. pag pumasok ka sa relationship dapat may purpose. unless member ka ng BNG..."bahala na gang"...

think about it girl. i know it's tough. but this is life. we all have to make decisions. it's your life. kung sugarol ka then go for it. but be prepared to loose. ako kasi hindi sugarol kasi i hate loosing. as i have said, be prepared na lang for what's going to happen. and always expect the worse.

i hope i helped. lahat naman kami dito ay mga miron lang....and girl, pray!!! pray for guidance and strength. good luck sis!!!

[pastor paradox]

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This guy is not a 2 timer, in that he is honest.
All I am saying is it depends on the situation.
I have a friend, he has an open marriage. So basically he can see other people. His wife can see other people.
They have been married for over 10+ years.

The guy has all the advantage is total rubbish.
From a scientific point of view.
Lets say there are 2 men. Man A, and Man B
Man A : has a good personality, he is responsible. Has good income 100K PHP per month. But he is married.
Man B : has a bad personality, is a drunk. Has income of 10K PHP per month. But is single.

Now in kate's position which man is the better choice ?
According to all the other people's opinion Man B.
Fact is kate is better off with Man A. To get 50% of a good thing is better then 100% of nothing.
If Kate married man B. He is a drunk. And he might run off with another woman anyway.

But ultimately it is up to Kate

[cho]

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in all honestly i'll say to you guys we agreed that I should be fully aware that he cant promise anything because never he thought he could leave GF for another woman... i was  challenged then... he said walang pupuntahan toh, basta walang araw na malulungkot tayo puro kasiyahan lang... and that is true, we never fight all happiness. ayaw ko ng magtanong but i am feeling he loves me na din... someday when i have all the courage to ask once and for all kung san toh papaunta at kung may nagbago na...  pinapatigas ko pang puso ko para di nya mapansing nasaktan ako...

okaaay..you always have a choice.

[fox]

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i am having an affair to a SINGLE guy with a 9 years relationship with his GF. Me and BF is at the same place we almost live together na he visits GF once a month lang since nasa ibang bansa din si GF. Nasasakatan ako everytime aalis sya to visit GF but I cant let him see it kase aware ako na may GF sya una pa lang... I love him na sigurado ako dun tama bang umasa akong one day sa lahat ng pang-uunawa ko piliin nya ako?

He sacrifices din a lot for me, di na sila chat sa bahay he lied sa GF na wala syang net kase kasama ko sya lage mga 4 months ng ganun, di nya pinaparamdam sa aking second lady lang ako but whenever we talked he is saying that he can't leave the GF and i am afraid to ask more...

awtz sakit naman. I don't know if i can stand this kind of relation.
here's a song for you katie.

Be my number two - Joe Jackson(((stereo)))+lyrics	DQ

[katieful]

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it's not only about the morality issue. mr. paradox. and i am not saying that i am righteous. madami din akong flaws and there were times that i've crossed the boundaries din.

i hope i helped. lahat naman kami dito ay mga miron lang....and girl, pray!!! pray for guidance and strength. good luck sis!!!

hi sis, everything you say is true... its is just so hard kapag nasa sitwasyon kana. Kahit nung bata ako i never thought i'll be i a position of a second lady yet eto ako ngaun a second lady with full consent...

mali bang umasang he'll change his mind? or shall i dumped him and wait till he realizes he loves me more...

[fox]

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hi sis, everything you say is true... its is just so hard kapag nasa sitwasyon kana. Kahit nung bata ako i never thought i'll be i a position of a second lady yet eto ako ngaun a second lady with full consent...

mali bang umasang he'll change his mind? or shall i dumped him and wait till he realizes he loves me more...

mahirap talaga pag love ang pinag usapan.
sis, is that a choice or nagkataon lang?
marami pa naman single man,
siguro ang hinahanap nyo ung more responsible/stable and mature man?

here's a song for you kate.

Mary McGregor Torn between two lovers	DQ

[mykeldm22]

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kung san masaya puso mo sundin mo... kung walang magiging problema gawin mo, maging masaya ka at in the end na masaktan ka wala ka ibang sisisihin kundi sarili mo lang ^_^