Tama ba ang ginawa niya?

[Dune.Kitty]

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Tama ba na sabihin ng girl sa bf in a tuwang tuwang way niya na may nagregalo sa kanya ng teddy bear at roses na officemate niya na guy na alam niya na may gusto sa kanya. At idagdag pa niya na flattered daw siya kaya siya masaya then aawayin mo kasi naiinis ka then si bf pa ang lumalabas na masama then the next day asa Toy Kingdom ka at alam ni gf yon then sabi niya na ibilhan ng damit yong teddy bear na niregalo sa kanya. Tama ba yon?! Makatarungan ba yon?! Tama bang sabihin ko na "Sunugin ko kaya yang teddy bear mo or alisin ang ulo at ipakain sa iyo?"   

[Dune.Kitty]

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ala pang girl na sumasagot...

[tempgirl]

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alam mo yang girlfriend mo parang nananadya... kabastusan sa parte mo yun at pinamumukha niya sayo na mas naappreciate pa niya ang bigay ng suitor niya kesa isipin at iconsider ang nararamdaman mo knowing na ikaw ang bf sana man lang nahiya siya ng konti sayo pero hinde nagpablili pa ng damit para sa rinegalo ng nagkakagusto sa kanya. sheeeeeeeeesh... leave her... you're better off...

[Dune.Kitty]

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alam mo yang girlfriend mo parang nananadya... kabastusan sa parte mo yun at pinamumukha niya sayo na mas naappreciate pa niya ang bigay ng suitor niya kesa isipin at iconsider ang nararamdaman mo knowing na ikaw ang bf sana man lang nahiya siya ng konti sayo pero hinde nagpablili pa ng damit para sa rinegalo ng nagkakagusto sa kanya. sheeeeeeeeesh... leave her... you're better off...

break na kami... she broke my heart sobra.. Minahal ko siya sng buo pero ganun pala siya walang consideration sa nararamdaman ko. Then sasabihin pa niya, bakit sino ba ang bf ko diba ikaw eh di wala siyang magagawa kasi bf kita. nasabi ko tuloy dahil ba mukha akong nerd ganyan ka sa akin? gusto ko magpahikaw siguro mapapansin mo na ako niyan... sabi niya... alam mo hindi ko na alam nangyayari sa iyo mas mabuti pang magbreak na talaga tayo. Sabi ko lang Wow ang bilis mo naman parang basura lang ako. Then after a week nagtext siya asking me kung nakamove on na daw ba ako. Mareplyan tuloy siya ng mura. Sa totoo lang I cried for more than a week, balisa, wala sa focus....       

[tempgirl]

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i'm sorry to hear that. uhm. immature pa yang ex mo she needs to grow up. uhm. i know mahirap yan, pero you deserve someone na pahahalagahan ang nararamdaman mo. you can talk to her and explain your side and then give her time to realize her mistakes if she changes then i guess pwede mo pa balikan if not well, hayaan mo na. ikaw lang naman nasasaktan. like i said you're better off.

jut my two cents.

[Dune.Kitty]

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oo nga eh tapos ako pa ang sasabihan niya ng batang isip... She wants to talk to me but I said wala ng dapat pag usapan pa. I know na tama ka... Masasaktan lang ulit ako sa kanya if magiging tanga ako. Even though hirap akong limutin siya sige kaya ko to...

[tempgirl]

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look, she wants to talk, if you really love her there's no harm giving her time to realize her mistakes  and IF she changes then okay. it's all about compromise. but then again if she doesn't change then it's time to let her go. di ka tanga nasaktan ka niya and initial reaction magagalit ka pero base sa mga posts mo i know nanghihinayang ka paren and maybe deep inside you still want her back. i mean she may be immature but she deserves a second chance don't you think?

pero if decided ka na to really let her go then ayun let her go.

(sorry medyo nagcocontradict yung sagot ko)

[Dune.Kitty]

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i know nanghihinayang ka paren and maybe deep inside you still want her back. i mean she may be immature but she deserves a second chance don't you think?

You know that, what you said was true... Deep inside me I still want her back. 2 weeks ago I sent her an email asking her if may chance pa ba na magkabalikan kami, I'll wait if yon gusto niya pero just let me know if ayaw mo na para hindi ako umasa. Hanggang ngayon wala parin akong natatanggap na reply from her. She changed her profile picture pero wala paring reply. So what do you think, do I need to consider raising the white flag and pull my men out of the frontline? Sa totoo lang hirap akong mahanap ng girl ulit na mamahalin ko because I am afraid that I might find another her na sasaktan lang ako at like paglalaruan. Hirap di ko alam gagawin ko... But I want a girl na pwd ko makasama at mapagsabihan ng problem na alam ko na may nagmamahal sa akin... I'm such a loser.

[Big Bad Wolf]

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pare sampal na ng harap-harapan yan ginagawa sayo... bulag ka ba or tanga? kung ako sayo papagiling ko muna yung teddy bear nya then pkain mo lahat.

[father paradox]

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These "Ann Lander" advice postings, while amusing, are probably not very effective.
To be fair, I would have to interview both parties. Right now I am only getting one side of the story.
But anyway .....

she needs to grow up

People have been telling me that for the last 35+ years. I find it very comical that those people are very miserable
You have to determine what is important in life, what is not important.
Most of the people who say "grow up", have their priorities all messed up, hence they are miserable.
Look at the world through the eyes of a child. That does not mean be irresponsible, I am talking about attitude.

The most important thing in life is attitude. It is not what you do in life but how you do it.
There reason I am saying this is because of this statement.

So what do you think, do I need to consider raising the white flag and pull my men out of the frontline?

What does this reveal ?
That you think this is some sort of war. Why not take this one step further Just be like a caveman. Just grab the woman by the hair, and then drag her back to your cave. Do what ever you want to her. If she tries to leave the cave tie her up.

Attitude is how you view the world. If you view the world as hostile. Then you will have a tendency to act hostile. Once you start to act hostile, then other people around you will be hostile also.

On the other side of the coin. The person that is just fun to be around. They just makes things fun. They usually have a good attitude.

Jealousy and Fear. The other big killer of relationships. What is the cause of this. Insecurity. People are scared that they will lose something. They get jealous because someone is getting more then they are. This is part of attitude. And because of thier fear/jealousy they end up driving people away.

I'm such a loser.

If you think you are a loser you will become one. Another example of a poor attitude

I can speak from experience. I am not boasting, but people usually tell me I am smart, successful and all that. I was not always that way. If you would take an IQ test, you probably would score a lot higher then me . My success secret "attitude"


I will just leave you with this.
Most people focus on what can't get done. Focus on what can be done.
My life sucked when I always would be crying about how bad my life sucked. Instead of looking at what I had, how I could make it better. Much easier to play the victim

[misSHAI'87]

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natawa naman ako dun sa gusto mong gawin sa teddy bear nya!

isa lang masasabi ko, ayaw na nya sayo..kapag ganun kadali siyang nagdesisyon ng break up for sure ayaw na nya..kasi girl din ako at ginawa ko na rin yan sa bf ko (pero magkaibang sitwasyon nman). para sakin kung tlagang ganun ka kahalaga sa kanya she will find a way para mapag usapan prob nyo.hindi yung basta basta mkikipaghiwalay agad. And she doesnt deserve your tears, makakahanap ka rin dyan sa tabi tabi dont wori.

[yUmieQ]

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Sorry to say this, pero..

Nabigyan mo na ba ng ganun ang gf mo?

Kase kung hindi, malamang nga magreact siya ng ganun kung sa mismong bf niya is hindi siya mabigyan..

Ignorante ba, kase iba ang feeling namin, espexal para samin makatanggap ng ganun..

Maari rin ginawa niya yun para maisipan mo bigyan siya..

L-O-L...

Pero kung nabigyan mo na siya nun,,

Malamang nagpi-flirt siya..

Kase knowing na tinanggap niya yun at ipinamuka pa sayo..

[menatwork]

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dapt sa mga ganung babae.. ginagamit lang!!! haha!!!

[Dune.Kitty]

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These "Ann Lander" advice postings, while amusing, are probably not very effective.
To be fair, I would have to interview both parties. Right now I am only getting one side of the story.
But anyway .....
People have been telling me that for the last 35+ years. I find it very comical that those people are very miserable
You have to determine what is important in life, what is not important.
Most of the people who say "grow up", have their priorities all messed up, hence they are miserable.
Look at the world through the eyes of a child. That does not mean be irresponsible, I am talking about attitude.

The most important thing in life is attitude. It is not what you do in life but how you do it.
There reason I am saying this is because of this statement.What does this reveal ?
That you think this is some sort of war. Why not take this one step further Just be like a caveman. Just grab the woman by the hair, and then drag her back to your cave. Do what ever you want to her. If she tries to leave the cave tie her up.

Attitude is how you view the world. If you view the world as hostile. Then you will have a tendency to act hostile. Once you start to act hostile, then other people around you will be hostile also.

On the other side of the coin. The person that is just fun to be around. They just makes things fun. They usually have a good attitude.

Jealousy and Fear. The other big killer of relationships. What is the cause of this. Insecurity. People are scared that they will lose something. They get jealous because someone is getting more then they are. This is part of attitude. And because of thier fear/jealousy they end up driving people away.
If you think you are a loser you will become one. Another example of a poor attitude

I can speak from experience. I am not boasting, but people usually tell me I am smart, successful and all that. I was not always that way. If you would take an IQ test, you probably would score a lot higher then me . My success secret "attitude"


I will just leave you with this.
Most people focus on what can't get done. Focus on what can be done.
My life sucked when I always would be crying about how bad my life sucked. Instead of looking at what I had, how I could make it better. Much easier to play the victim

A very profound response... Yeah you are so damn right about what you'd just said buddy.

Sorry to say this, pero..

Nabigyan mo na ba ng ganun ang gf mo?

Kase kung hindi, malamang nga magreact siya ng ganun kung sa mismong bf niya is hindi siya mabigyan..

Ignorante ba, kase iba ang feeling namin, espexal para samin makatanggap ng ganun..

Maari rin ginawa niya yun para maisipan mo bigyan siya..

L-O-L...

Pero kung nabigyan mo na siya nun,,

Malamang nagpi-flirt siya..

Kase knowing na tinanggap niya yun at ipinamuka pa sayo..

Hindi ko style magbigay ng material na bagay I rather ask her to go to a fine diner or see a movie. Anyway I guess ayos yong mga kasagutan niyo. Still asa recovery stage palang ako... You know what I want to break her jaw if I see her walking sa Megamall... If you guys ever go sa BDO sa may Ayala and you see a girl named Sarah Jane Reyes then siya na yon...

[chubbynesscute >:)]

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mali yun, as in maling mali! anu yun,. intentionally pinag seselos mo yun karelasyon mo?? hmm,. bad yun bad..