kapag sinabi ng bf mong gusto na nyang magkapilya pero hinde :((

[katieful]

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to start with, i have a bf for 2 years, certified single ( mataas ang estado sa buhay ), i a single parent, on process ang annulment. recently he said, na pi pressure na sya he wants to have a family a wife and a baby, at di daw nya magawang maghanap dahil andito ako sa buhay nya.

para akong sinampal, all the while pala wala syang balak na makasama ako in tne future and he profess na nahihirapan sya to move on kase i am his dream girl yet di pwede because his family would not agree...

i ask for a distance, yet he keeps on calling me to check if am ok gulong gulo ako, i am in pain pero napaka insensitive nya

[Serenoa]

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the good thing is that for some reason he still likes to be with you. nagkakaroon lang siya ng dilemma because affected yung decision niya ng kanyang family.

[mrs bree hodge]

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tama yan, distance muna while he decides whether:  mahal ka nya ba talaga or mas mahal nya family nya..

if he chooses his family's wishes, then let him go. He loves you but not enough to make him marry you..wala kang dpat panghinayangan.  he's not worth it, kung maging kayo di rin yan magtatagal kasi mahal ka lang nya kasi convenient sa kanya pero kung may problema na, di ka pala kayang ipagtanggol..

[stilnlove]

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y naman d ka gus2 ng family ng guy?
confront mo nlng xa at sabihin mo na wala muna comu between you 2 para mkapag isip kau...sorry ha pero bka naman d ka talaga nya mahal.d ka lng nya maiwan ksi nga dream girl ka.its just my own opinion ha.bka magalit ka saken...i know mahirap situation mo pero try 2 think nlng muna kng wat talaga ung tama...

[katieful]

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thanks guys,i am so confused. they dont like me because i am legally married with a kid and he is single. for so long i prayed they will accept me and my kiddo, i am not a pabigat
naman, i can live a life that i want kaya ansaket saket to accept na they are blaming me na nagsisira daw ng buhay sa bf dahil sa akin.

his last words when we parted ways was, everything he dreamt for a woman is me, but he cant hurt her mom na umaasanag someday hell raise a family of his own. i accpeted his confession ng ok fine, go, then after many days ayan na sya, super call, super dalaw at pag ask ko why he simply said because he wants to check if i am ok, because he's not ok.

oh God how i wanted to say ituloy na lang natin para happy tayo pero until when diba? magpapakatanga ako at aasa, ilang taon na akong umasa what made me think his thoughts would change sa ilang araw lang... hay

[stilnlove]

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yan ang mahirap sa isang situation kung ung family ay involve...give him tym 2 think muna kasi confuse pa yan.naki join ba naman si mother sa inyo.hehe...n tym ma solve dn ung prob mo...

[katieful]

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uu naman sis, though ayaw kong umasa na in the end maging kami pa at happy ending ang sabi ko nga tigilan nya ang comparison sa akin at sa mga prospect nyang ligawan at walang move on na mangyayari for both of us kung may kontakan.

[Serenoa]

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thanks guys,i am so confused. they dont like me because i am legally married with a kid and he is single. for so long i prayed they will accept me and my kiddo, i am not a pabigat
naman, i can live a life that i want kaya ansaket saket to accept na they are blaming me na nagsisira daw ng buhay sa bf dahil sa akin.

his last words when we parted ways was, everything he dreamt for a woman is me, but he cant hurt her mom na umaasanag someday hell raise a family of his own. i accpeted his confession ng ok fine, go, then after many days ayan na sya, super call, super dalaw at pag ask ko why he simply said because he wants to check if i am ok, because he's not ok.

oh God how i wanted to say ituloy na lang natin para happy tayo pero until when diba? magpapakatanga ako at aasa, ilang taon na akong umasa what made me think his thoughts would change sa ilang araw lang... hay

may strong feeling talaga siya sa iyo but i guess he can't decide on his own. kasi if i were on his situation and kung talaga naman deserving mahalin yung girl then i would marry the girl kahit pa ayaw ng parents ko sa kanya. in your case naman kasi; legally married ka so technically may sabit talaga. it would have been much easier kung annulled na yung first marriage mo.

[katieful]

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its on process sis, ang naiisip ko na lang na reason is sya mismo di matanggap ang sitwasyon ko. iniintindi ko na makakasira ako sa career nya, i could say na mataas ang posisyun nya ang napaka bright ng future awating him... wala kami sa pinas FYI. masyadong mataas ang expectations sa kanya at madaming babaeng umaaligid sa kanya and he's 3 years younger pa sa akin kaya talaga matindi ang pressure.

i decided to move on, sya lang nangungulet i wont fight argue sa family nya he made his choice eh. i need peace which he can't give me ako naman malambot sinasagot ko naman sya. babae talaga ang hina-hina... hay

[Serenoa]

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wala naman mawawala if you give him a chance di ba? siguro mawawalan ka lang ng konting peace of mind because andiyan na naman yung feeling of jealousy and sometimes the feeling of insecurity towards those young girls around him.

[katieful]

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wala naman mawawala if you give him a chance di ba? siguro mawawalan ka lang ng konting peace of mind because andiyan na naman yung feeling of jealousy and sometimes the feeling of insecurity towards those young girls around him.

parang ganun na nga po, inuubos ka na nga lang ang panahon ko sa forum para mawalan ako ng tim na isipin sya. kagabi he want's to see me di ako pumayag sana tuloy tuloy na po ito.

[RR™]

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Hi Miss Kat,

Your situation is not that difficult. Napakasimple, if he really loves you, he'll fight for you.

If i were your BF hindi ako magdadalawang isip na ipaglaban ka sa family ko. Para sa akin kasi, Ang pakikisamahan ko habang buhay ay ung babaeng mamahalin ko ang babaeng magiging ina ng magiging anak namin at hindi ung family ko.

Kung ayaw man ni mother sa iyo, time comes matatanggap ka niya rin lalo na pag magkaka-apo na siya sa magiging baby niyo ni BF.  Yun sana ang inisip ng BF mo, ipinaglaban niya sana ung pagmamahalan niyong dalawa. It doesnt matter if legally married ka, the thing is wala na kayo ng ex hubby mo. Its just a matter of papers na pwede namang ayusin.

Just look forward, you deserved to be loved at all. Focus your time with your work, with your family most especially sa anak mo. Just keep on praying. Time comes darating din ung lalaking mag-ooffer sa iyo ng lubos na pagmamahal, yung ipaglalaban ka sa lahat ng trials.

Goodluck po.

Godblesses you always;-)

[katieful]

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Hi Miss Kat,

Your situation is not that difficult. Napakasimple, if he really loves you, he'll fight for you.

If i were your BF hindi ako magdadalawang isip na ipaglaban ka sa family ko. Para sa akin kasi, Ang pakikisamahan ko habang buhay ay ung babaeng mamahalin ko ang babaeng magiging ina ng magiging anak namin at hindi ung family ko.

Kung ayaw man ni mother sa iyo, time comes matatanggap ka niya rin lalo na pag magkaka-apo na siya sa magiging baby niyo ni BF.  Yun sana ang inisip ng BF mo, ipinaglaban niya sana ung pagmamahalan niyong dalawa. It doesnt matter if legally married ka, the thing is wala na kayo ng ex hubby mo. Its just a matter of papers na pwede namang ayusin.

Just look forward, you deserved to be loved at all. Focus your time with your work, with your family most especially sa anak mo. Just keep on praying. Time comes darating din ung lalaking mag-ooffer sa iyo ng lubos na pagmamahal, yung ipaglalaban ka sa lahat ng trials.

Goodluck po.

Godblesses you always;-)

hi RR thanks dear.
sabi ko nga po i am on moving on stage. kinakaya ko naman feeling ko nga nasa acceptance stage na ako, but everytime magpaparamdam sya na kesyo he's not happy binibigyan nya ako ng chance na pwede pa rin pero wala naman syang nababanggit, naiisip pa nag siguro sya.
oo naman, i am concentrating sa career at sa baby ko dumadating lang talaga ang confusion tuwing anjan na naman sya.
yeas dear goodluck talaga sa akin. i know naman di ako masamang tao, di pa lang siguro dumarating yung para sa akin kung may para sa akin nga.