phinge ng advice

[DhivEnu]

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i made this thread hoping sum1 wod care to entertain..

ask lng sna ako s mga opinion nu..

alam ko magakaka-iba taung laht,,,, diff. views,

this may seem same with other thread but im looking for answers for my own personal prob.

to start with :
root of the prob; Loneliness,unworthness,
Q: how do you cure it?..
 

this is a serious matter 4 me.. 4 others may not.. thnx

ill follow further explanation/info as soon i receive any comment

[Serenoa]

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first try to know what is the main reason why you feel lonely or unworthy. there are two major reasons for that. first one is yung envronment mo mismo, second one is you may be suffering from clinical depression.

how would you know if you are suffering from clinical depression? kung wala namang reason why you should be lonely and yet you are still lonely for several months at a time.

kung environment naman ang problema it is a bit easier to solve kasi all you need to do is train yourself to have a more positive outlook in life.

[DhivEnu]

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u can say environment.. descrimination is one.. lack of love from those person who are supposed to .. no one cares and undrstand.. kala nla lahat ng tao same ang ugali. .. anu po masasabi nu?

[♥ tOXiC ♥]

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i feel for you kahit dedmahin mo yung pakiramdam mo still it hurts pa din

what i did is yun nga dedma sa feelings kasi naman wala akong choice...
im trying to focus myself on other things na pwedeng mawala yung concentration ko sa feelings ko...

hayy... cheer up... malalampasan din natin yan

[fox]

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u can say environment.. descrimination is one.. lack of love from those person who are supposed to .. no one cares and undrstand.. kala nla lahat ng tao same ang ugali. .. anu po masasabi nu?

what makes you think na nadescriminate ka? lack of love from the person who suppose to care?
to better understand your problem, you need to answer some of my question. hoping to give a good advice.Ilan ba kayo sa family? are you living with your family? how long did you feel this way? do you have a history of medical depression? tuwing kailan mo ba nararamdaman na lonely ka? unworthness? what makes you say that? did someone say this word to you?

 

[DhivEnu]

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often.. were only 4 im the oldest.. its kinda hard to explain but.. since i was a child i im always alone.. nkikisama nmn ako sa iba but in the end it all turns out to be useless.. y? no one gonna be there for you in times your breaking down.. even sa family i was treated like a child until now.. not to be selfish on my side.. but it true.. they dont give a damn small trust.. they all think i were as same as those guys out there.. i may b little stupid but it was because i want to be cared too.. i just want to feel i do exist.. we'll sumone told me.. nkasalubong q sa skul.. sabi nya "dave ga exist kpa gle?" .. that moment i try not to focus but i felt like i was tearing apart.. ok lng sna wag mo sbihin pra kaya kong lukohin srili ko na nd yun 22o.. but it happened.. going back..noon nd p ganun ka deep e2.. but people change.. i realize the fact that no matter i do.. even given up all for sumone jz for that stupid love that i want to feel.. i t all ends ups the same.. im tired.. sa pagmamahal wla dpat hangganan un.. peo d q kaya paniwalain sarili ko na 22o un.. ang hirap.. but i nvr did blame anyone for this.. mahirap b magbigay khit kunting pag iintidi lng? i nvr ask to b loved.. i jz want to feel that im usefull in this world.. im tired of this 19years of damn life.. but im not that stupid to wish that i die.. i just dont know what should i do..what should i say..what should i think.. sna me makakaintindi.. pasensya medyo deep ang explanation q.. salamt sa mga nag weps..

[DhivEnu]

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i feel for you kahit dedmahin mo yung pakiramdam mo still it hurts pa din

what i did is yun nga dedma sa feelings kasi naman wala akong choice...
im trying to focus myself on other things na pwedeng mawala yung concentration ko sa feelings ko...

hayy... cheer up... malalampasan din natin yan

i did.. but me hangganan ang lhat ng bagay.. u can't hold on to it forever..
araw2x prang niloloko q sarili ko na kaya ko to.. ako pa.. peo sumtimes we do nid sumone to cheer us up.. not thru words.. "sigh" thnks sa pag weps ^^

[BSPJ TSUKI]

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i think the answer of your question is in yourself...
i have been there; those kind of feelings that make us depress i all days of our life. the truth will set you free... this are commonly exist to an eldest child of a family. sotp finding yourself, stop reflecting about life. i know your trying to be a perfect person. kaya ka ngkakaganyan dahil your still confuse of who you are... kaya nga minsan hindi mo masasabing your existing because your trying to be someone else..

pero its normal for a person to be someone else... your a normal.. but your still a prisoner of being you. release your self to the reality. stop trying to be god of your own world. because in this world we are merely toys.

[DhivEnu]

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i think the answer of your question is in yourself...
i have been there; those kind of feelings that make us depress i all days of our life. the truth will set you free... this are commonly exist to an eldest child of a family. sotp finding yourself, stop reflecting about life. i know your trying to be a perfect person. kaya ka ngkakaganyan dahil your still confuse of who you are... kaya nga minsan hindi mo masasabing your existing because your trying to be someone else..

pero its normal for a person to be someone else... your a normal.. but your still a prisoner of being you. release your self to the reality. stop trying to be god of your own world. because in this world we are merely toys.

salamat po.. tama k nga po. i nid to fact reality and life.. im almost fine now.. but moving onwards.. sabi nla mdami option sa lahat ng prob.. peo i have no other choice i nid to accept tha sad fact that I must be strong.. haha!.. thnx thnx po talga ... whew!..

[♥ tOXiC ♥]

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^ im happy for you na ok ka na right now, ako din sobrang ok nowadays

[DhivEnu]

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^ im happy for you na ok ka na right now, ako din sobrang ok nowadays

.. TBO im not really okay.. but way better than yesterday..d q na iniicp nga wlng kwntang bagay na yan.. hehe... xD salamat po sa inyu.. even if theres nobody for me.. kht papano me nkaka ntndii .. hehe.

[♥ tOXiC ♥]

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.. TBO im not really okay.. but way better than yesterday..d q na iniicp nga wlng kwntang bagay na yan.. hehe... xD salamat po sa inyu.. even if theres nobody for me.. kht papano me nkaka ntndii .. hehe.

no problem... nakakatuwa lang nakita kita ulit online dito and2 lang lagi PLF kung wala kang makausap keepsafe

[DhivEnu]

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no problem... nakakatuwa lang nakita kita ulit online dito and2 lang lagi PLF kung wala kang makausap keepsafe

well nka book ksi e2 sa mozilla q.. i was in a diff forum.. looking for the same thing.. n icpan q bmlik d2.. pag ka basa q ngumiti ako agad.. hehe.. no wordz can express my greatfullness to all of you guys... keep safe dn po kau,,. xD

[Lylee]

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hi dave... loneliness and unworthiness is only a matter of mindset,. The way you react on things depends on how you see them. Ive experience a lot of dark moments in my life, but here i am... firmly standing still. Dont nurse a grudge towards other pipol who may hurt you in the past, instead prove them wrong, show them that indeed you are SOMEONE. You are existing for a purpose, but dont just exist...LIVE!

Bottom line...Pray. Just believe in the fact that somewhere outthere...somebody cares

[DhivEnu]

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hi dave... loneliness and unworthiness is only a matter of mindset,. The way you react on things depends on how you see them. Ive experience a lot of dark moments in my life, but here i am... firmly standing still. Dont nurse a grudge towards other pipol who may hurt you in the past, instead prove them wrong, show them that indeed you are SOMEONE. You are existing for a purpose, but dont just exist...LIVE!

Bottom line...Pray. Just believe in the fact that somewhere outthere...somebody cares

thnks.. ^_^ u r ryt.. it is only a mtter time till im gonna  b totally okay.. . Pray? i haven't done it for a month.. xD.. 



thnks po.. although it took a long time for my thread  to get advice... hehe kala ko wla na me mag rerep... until just last week i decided to visit this page...