wat shud i do???

[ms.emotera229(member since may 31, 2009)]

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wat shud i do if ung present bf ko, d mhiwalayan formally gf nya kasi suicidal ang gurl???



please do help...

[babyjam26]

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FIRST QUESTION,

Present bf mo na siya pero hindi pa sila totally hiwalay nung gf niya? Huwaat?

Well, here's my opinion.

A lot of people use emotions to get hold and control of their relationship. In your bf's case, it maybe hard to decide because someone's life may be at stake, but remember, you two are not responsible to whatever decision that girl made. Don't ever think that it will be a selfish decision but hey, let's be realistic here, sooner or later, your bf will leave that girl no matter how she wanted herself to be killed. If he's not happy with the relationship anymore, why continue? It wil not make any sense anymore. They will just be both miserable.

Tell your bf that the suicidal tendency should not only be the ground for the decision to leave the girl or not. Its better for him to know what he really feels for the both of you.... If he's not yet ready to be with you regardless of the consequences, then maybe, he doesn't love you that much...

[magdalena]

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wat shud i do if ung present bf ko, d mhiwalayan formally gf nya kasi suicidal ang gurl???

please do help...

familiar yung story.. hmmm

isip muna ako..

[ms.emotera229(member since may 31, 2009)]

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kinakausap ko xia about this matter...he keeps on telling me na wag ako magselos...i keep on asking him if un lng ba tlga ang reason...but he did not answer... but wen i asked him if he still love that gurl, ito sagot nya "mas mahal kita." it sounds unfair, isn't it??? pero love ko xia...i dont have the strength to let him go at this point...sabi ko sa sarili ko, if d nya ifoformal break ung gurl after 3 mos., then that's the time to let him go eventhough it hurts...tma bang gwin ko to???

[ms.emotera229(member since may 31, 2009)]

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wahahahha...please move this topic to love problems and advice....

[♥ tOXiC ♥]

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ilang buwan na ba kayo sis three months is fair enough na siguro, kung kaya mo pa kung sakin kasi sis ayaw ko ng me kahati...

nagkikita pa ba sila ng babaeng suicidal yun kasing sabihin nyang mas mahal ka nya hindi maikakailang mahal nya pa din ang isa... mag isip ka sis

[ms.emotera229(member since may 31, 2009)]

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ndi pa...mag two two months pa lang..kinaya ko naman..hmmm...maski ako, ayaw ko me khati..

ndi na...but hu knows... ((

[BSPJ TSUKI]

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i think in your situation. ikaw ang victim. if open minded ka, it is better to let go the guy at this point for a fair deal. dahil at the first shot niloko ka rin ng guy dahil nanligaw sya sayo habang my GF sya. UU, maiipit nga ang guy dhl pressure sya at this point. in order to let the pressure go, open the other valve to release the pressure and you the other valve that i pointed to. let him settle his problem first before continueng your relation. mag-usap kayo ng husto and meet up with a deal na hndi kayo both masasaktan.

you have the power to made this difference... make the guy understand bkt mo ggwin ito. dhil kung mging kayo nga ng guy tapos at ngpakamatay ung babae. did you think that the guy would be happy for that? sure ko hindi maging happy relationship nyo baring with the guilt nyong dlawa. its a waste pa rin kung continue pa rin ito, lalo na at obsess ang GF nya.

i hope my advise help.

[stilnlove]

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hi...same tau situation...pero x ko na xa ngaun...dpende na yan sau.i know mahirap kaya lang ikaw lang yung kawawa.for me siguro natatakot lng ung guy na wala ng matira sa kanya thats why ayaw nya makipaghiwalay sau and sa suicidal nyang gf.pero saken lng ha.d naman cguro tama na sabihin nung guy mas mahal kita.unfair naman un...just learn 2 let him go nalang...

[ms.emotera229(member since may 31, 2009)]

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di ko tlga kaya i let go ee...

huhuuh...

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mahal na mahal ku ung guy...


tanga na kung tanga...


d ko tlaga kaya hiwalayan...


khit alam kung dlwa kmi...

[stilnlove]

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talagang mahirap i let go...kahit me nga d ko xa na let go at first pero ginawa nya na naman ulit un na let go ko na...aftr a yr ko syang hnintay ksi nga seaman...un pagbaba me nakitang ibang girl na in love daw pero na realize nya after ilang wks na confused sya sa feelings kaya lng me pagka violent ung girl d na naman nya mahiwalayan kaya me nlng talaga nag let go kesa naman maulit na naman...
depende na sayo yan pero just think about it nalang...mahirap na kung tatagal pa yang love triangle nu.baka kung ano pa mangyari.mas lalala ung situation nu...

[John27]

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Don't believe her. She's bluffing. Most of what people say are actually lies. Psychology wise, if she would kill herself, she should have done it years ago. What she is doing is called a "delaying tactic." It won't last, sooner or later the guy would give up and leave her.

[ms.emotera229(member since may 31, 2009)]

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CASE CLOSED!!! HEHEHEH...

[eLrey]

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CASE CLOSED!!! HEHEHEH...

bakit ok n?

[ms.emotera229(member since may 31, 2009)]

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ya..ok na...