To give this a shot or not?! ???

[cut.her.in]

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We’re in mutual understanding stage, we’ve been exchanging text messages for almost 2 mos. He keeps telling me how much he likes my personality and so was i.. we never had any dull moment with each other. We were open on each others feelings and he would tell me that he wants me to be his girlfriend but..

Yeah there’s a big BUT, I’m scared of being in a relationship.. he was damn serious about it, and when he starts talking about that topic I would certainly reply “baket nanliligaw kba?” just to make it funny and change the issue..

I like him, I even love him but the problem is that I’m so scared of falling in love or being committed in a relationship. What should I do? Should I give this a shot? Or just turn the tables?



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[Serenoa]

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you should give it a shot. palagi ko naman sinasabi dito na Love is all about taking the risk. you might be afraid to get hurt but it is part of the game of love. if you get hurt then consider it as a learning experience. kailan ka pa natutong maglakad ng hindi nadadapa or kailan ka pa natutong mag bisekleta ng hindi natutumba?

kaya nga game of love.sometimes you win, sometimes you lose but the important thing is you give it a shot.

but in your age Cath, do not take it very seriously kasi you are not yet very experienced pagdating sa relationship. remember yung line sa song na "Fifteen" by Taylor Swift - "coz when your fifteen and somebody tells you they love you, youre gonna believe them.

and also sinabi ni din ni Taylor Swift na "But in your life you'll do things greater than
Dating the boy on the football team, But I didn't know it at fifteen".

implying that there is more things to do in life than dating or having a relationship at a very early age. my final advice is you should give it a shot but don't take it seriously because you are still too young. And when you're fifteen, don't forget to look before you fall tsaka Take a deep breath as you walk through the doors

[BSPJ TSUKI]

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nice one serenoa...

your still young to be ready to enter of a chaotic world of love relationship... baka hindi mo makakayanan ang bigat na dadalhin nito sa iyo pagdating ng oras. hindi lahat ng relasyon ay puro saya lang, may trials din ito.. para masusukat kung gaano ba katatag kayo sa isat-isa...

[ms.emotera229(member since may 31, 2009)]

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try mu...love mu naman pala eh...take the risk para matuto ka...

[Jenifer]

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Don't rush it.  If you have some hesitations, then dont rush in to things you might later regret.  Just let it flow and it should come naturally.