need ko gurls advices!

[prinsipe21]

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good morning.. need ko lang mga advices nyu kasi ilang gabi na ako binabangungot ng masaklap na experience ko..

5 years na kame ng gf ko.. im 23 and she's 21... masaya kami in last weeks.. just nung tuesday galing kame MOA dating happily.. sobrang saya.. but then paguwi ko.. a trusted friend just pm'ed me sa facebook.. close friend ko sya at kilala ni GF.. he told me lahat ng nalalaman nya. nakita nya daw ang GF ko na me kaholdinghands around 8pm [uwian] sa harap ng skul thats b4 ondoy and d ko sya sinundo non.. w/c d ako naniwala at first..

after a few conversations.. i decided na abangan sya sa school w/o knowing her na nandun ako. 11am ako nagantay.. 8pm ko sila nakita.. in my face kitang kita ko sya kung humawak sa braso ng kalbong yun.. me ng inform lang sa kanya kaya hindi lumabas ang kalbo. nagwawala kami ng kasama ko sa labas. ung GF ko yakap ng yakap sakin at ngmamakaawa. after that kinausap ako nung lalake. man to man.. sya daw lalayo.. sinulot nya ako. 3 months na naging sila.. na attached lang daw tlga sya sa GF ko.. tangna.. at si gf ngmamakaawa sakin daw sya sasama. umiiyak and everything.. : m a d :

e2 ang problem ko. sa nangyari lagi nlng ng pipicture-out ang nakita ko. ang gusto ni GF e back to normal ang lahat w/c is ang hirap para sakin. d maka2log hindi din makakain. sinabi nya nagawa lang daw nya siguro un just because in past months d daw ako showy at lagi daw kame ng aaway ive changed lang daw in last 3 weeks. pero sabe ko kahit na, she must tell me kung me pagkukulang ako..

this is the 3rd time and the hardest one. kasi in my mind lague ng fla-flashback.. i do told her that i forgive her and give her 1 very last chance minahal ko sya ng sobra sobra. pero something is not right. bakit ngfla-flash back ang nangyari. nasasaktan padin ako. i need some advices naman.. thankss!

[Serenoa]

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i am not a girl, but i think i am qualified to answer your question.

you should give her a second chance bro. ang problem talaga sa babae ay di talaga sila nagsasabi ng kanilang nararamdaman not unless kulitin mo sila. kaya nga di ba sa rules on dating, you always have to "mind read" kung ano ang nararamdaman ng girl. kaya i believe your gf na may pagkukulang ka sa kanya but she does not tell you about it. maybe in your point of view lahat mo na ginawa but pag sha naman tinanong mo sasabihin niya na your effort is not enough.

talagang magfaflashback yung mga nangyari and you would get hurt. it is normal bro. but be very very cautious sa gf mong yan. they are the type of person na dapat pampered palagi and you should always be there all the time. you should always ask her what she feels, what is wrong and always keep your communication lines open. parang si bianca yan, iwan mo lang sa loob ng big brother house at in love agad kay zanjo.

[prinsipe21]

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salamat sa reply.. upu i just realized my mistakes nga pero its too late. 3 weeks b4 confrontations ako daw ngbago. pero 3 months n nging sila...

[Serenoa]

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salamat sa reply.. upu i just realized my mistakes nga pero its too late. 3 weeks b4 confrontations ako daw ngbago. pero 3 months n nging sila...

if you are 100% sure na totoo nga yan then ibig sabihin two timer talaga si girl. but i would still advice you to find out kung bakit nagkakaganun siya.

is the other guy

a. richer than you
b. sweeter than you
c. more handsome than you

[prinsipe21]

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nagusap kami ng guy. man to man in that moment sinabi nya na sa araw2x nila po magkasama e naattached sila sa isat isa. m not a violent person i want some answers kaya kinausap ko yung dalawa. si gf ko she told me na ung mga months na naging cold ako.. di ko masundo. di kame mklabas.. as in 1 week once lang kame mgkita.. d nya daw alam ang pinasok nya. kaya po sometimes naiisip ko. me pagkukulang tlga ako.

the guy is taller than me.. athletic ang built.. ako dumb fat a**.. tumaba dahil lack of activities sports/work.. as in.. sa PC lang magdamag... so im pushing myself to loose weight na po.

and nalaman ko na sinusundo ng guy ang gf ko sa place namin ng di ko alam. from our place to school. mgclassmates kasi. bwct

[prinsipe21]

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but still po.. sakin sya sumama. nagusap kame ng masinsinan.. she wants me.. lokohan lang daw ung sa kanila di seryosohan. pero still po masakit parin at ngfla flashback sakin ang nangyari.

[Serenoa]

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but still po.. sakin sya sumama. nagusap kame ng masinsinan.. she wants me.. lokohan lang daw ung sa kanila di seryosohan. pero still po masakit parin at ngfla flashback sakin ang nangyari.

masakit talaga yan and it is just normal. dont expect na magiging ok ka na after magsabi ng babae na ikaw pa rin gust niya. it takes time to heal and forget since she did not only broke your heart but she also broke your trust.

ang isip kasi ng babae ay very very complicated. hindi yan tulad mag isip ng mga lalake where we think logically. girls are controlled by their feelings not by their minds kaya if she feels that your relationship is not working, then she would find another one where she feels cared for. 

[ms.complicated]

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this is the 3rd time and the hardest one. kasi in my mind lague ng fla-flashback.. i do told her that i forgive her and give her 1 very last chance minahal ko sya ng sobra sobra. pero something is not right. bakit ngfla-flash back ang nangyari. nasasaktan padin ako. i need some advices naman.. thankss!

pnong 3rd time? 3rd time k ng niloko?

[prinsipe21]

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1st sa txt/2nd YM w/c nakilala nya sa duty sa bulacan... 3rd huli sa akto..

[ms.complicated]

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1st sa txt/2nd YM w/c nakilala nya sa duty sa bulacan... 3rd huli sa akto..

eh ang tindi pla nyan gf m? pero mas matindi k p dn at natatake m un lht..one chance is ok 2nd chance is enuf, 3rd time is too much..well, kung mahal m tlg eh..but u know wat love ur self first kc khit nmn tnanggap m xa ulit kung ung pkiramdam m d k nmn lubos n masaya..wats the sense db..

[tinsxviii]

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i agree with you serenoa.

Actually when she said na 3 weeks pa lang na nagbago ka. I think thats already sugar coated. She feels that way with you for quite some time na talaga. the 3 times na nahuli mo sya is just 1 time panloloko for her because its the same guy. It would really take some time for you to heal but then again, you gave her a second chance, then aim (for yourself) to be a better boyfriend. Again wag mong ipapamuka sa girlfriend mo na "e niloko mo ako e" you deserve to be treated badly. me coming from a 9 years relationship with my BF, thats one thing na turn off. so let her be nice to you but at the same time be nice to her as well. Change is for the better . With the tampuhan and lokohan, this time you'll see a bigger picture.

[♥ tOXiC ♥]

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fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me... tumithree ka pa pala

kasi ako gang 2nd time na nahuli ko out na sa buhay ko

[mikaela_tweety]

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ano kya kng mkipghiwalay k muna sa gf mo?
nang sa gnun mkpg icip k ng mbuti kng deserving p b xa kht n ilang beses k n niloko..
think3x..give urself a break muna..