ano ibig sabihin if hingi kayo ng time and space away from your gf?

[miss_confused]

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 for some reason, my bf is very distant now...he has not been seeing me for how many days already unlike b4 na everyday kami ngkikita.
d din nya ma explain bakit gusto nya from work to home sya everyday..d na sya gumagala and ayaw na nya makihalubilo sa mga common friends namin..

im wondering why and he assured me na walang ibang girl..gusto nya lng daw makapag.isa for now

any advices or comments guys? i nid peace of mind...thanks

[♥JYLLDS_Jessa♥]

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ah parang mgulo yan ah sis...
well pwedeng gusto muna nyang mag isip...
baka me problema sya at ayaw nya pti ikaw maapektuhan...
pero pwede rin na nasa inyo prob,maaaring me iba n sya masakit mn un sis...
try mo kausapin sya para malamn mo reason nya and khit ano mn un dapat ready ka dun..
gudluck..

[Allyn]

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i got the same problem too..

magkalapit lang work namin pero d na sya pumupunta dito gaya ng dati..

kahit tingnan man lang aq qng ok aq..ni hindi na rin nagttxt..

i asked him namn if nagbago na sya..qng may iba na sya..qng ano gusto nya..

wala naman daw..d namn daw sya nagbago..

mga twice a week na lang qng pumunta dito..pagpumupunta dito wala naman sinasabi about duN..

hirap nya kausapin,,:(

nagkakatanawan naman kami lagi kc haLos magkaharap lang work namin pero iba
pa rin yun dapat pumunta sya dito gaya ng dati..

ibreak q na ba sya? sasabihin q na hindi q na sya mafeel?na hindi q na maramdaman na mahala aq sa kanya?na q na naramdaman pagmamahal nya?

heLp namn po..

[miss_confused]

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yeah right...i hate this feeling...wala akong peace of mind coz he doesnt wanna talk about it..
my friends are telling me na baka may iba na sya and i verified it with him...sabi nya wala daw tlga..he just want to be alone for now..

ewan ko...my instinct is telling me na theres should be a reason... i even told him i would understand if he's falling out of love na but he insisted na there are no reasons other than he just wanna be alone..

honestly its killing me softly...i just want to have a peace of mind...i cant seem to concentrate with my work since my mind is not working..

ano ba dapat ko gawin? will i fight for him or just give him up???

[Allyn]

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hays..pareho talaga tau..

i already had a breakup with him yesterday..tinixt q sya pero d man lang nagreply..

sabi q d q riN namn mafeel na bf q sya tapusin na lang namin reLasyon namin..

tapus kanina we accidentally meet nagkatinginan lang kami..d q na kinausap hinayaan lang aq..

taz may nakapagsabi sakin na merOn na daw kcng iba..


cguro gaNUn sila kc para tau na mismo bumitaw sa kanila..

so pagginawa natin yun tau yung mali..kc naggive up tau..pero gusto rin namn nila yun.

kinakalimutan q na sya ngaun..kahit alam qng imposible mangayri..


ibreak mO na sis..qng mahal ka talaga nun d yun papayag..kaya dapat ready ka..wag ka masyado expect..

qng mahal ka talaga nya pipigilan ka nun..qng hindi hahayaan ka na lang nya..gumagawa lang sila ng first move para maggive up tau..

bahala ka if susundin mo payo q..hehe..based lang namn yan sa experience q..hays..hirap magmahal.

[♥ tOXiC ♥]

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yeah right...i hate this feeling...wala akong peace of mind coz he doesnt wanna talk about it..
my friends are telling me na baka may iba na sya and i verified it with him...sabi nya wala daw tlga..he just want to be alone for now..

ewan ko...my instinct is telling me na theres should be a reason... i even told him i would understand if he's falling out of love na but he insisted na there are no reasons other than he just wanna be alone..

honestly its killing me softly...i just want to have a peace of mind...i cant seem to concentrate with my work since my mind is not working..

ano ba dapat ko gawin? will i fight for him or just give him up???

yup tama.. lahat ng bagay me dahilan kaya i believe na me dahilan kung bakit ganyan ang kinikilos nya ngayon...and as a girlfriend, alam kong ang gusto mo eh malaman ang dahilan na yun, kung hindi man ibang babae ang dahilan i know na gusto mo din malaman at least share nya man lang sayo

pero hindi lahat ng tao katulad ng iniisip mo... maaring meron lang shang personal/not related to you problems na kailangan nyang pagtuunan ng pansin... tama si ladyjessa maaring ayaw ka lang nya maapektuhan...

hindi naman porke nagbago ang act ng isang guy eh me iba nasha... its a case to case basis din naman

wag ka muna makipagbreak,,, observe ka lang muna... baka one of these days eh magshare na din sha sayo malay mo

[miss_confused]

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uu nga lyn18...we share the same feelings..kaibahan lng is ur still  young and i think d pa kayo masyadong matagal ni ex mo..good that u broke up with him na..so moving on wud be ur next move...

our case is different...we are in a long term relationship na..9 years na kami together and we were planning to settle down na early next year..and the fact na he's my first bf, i dont know how to handle a break-up...



its getting worst now..im pissed of na tlga..last nyt he texted me na miss na daw nya ko and that he loves me very much..he said nasa bahay lng daw sya and d muna kami mgkikita...

sana lng tama sinabi ni toxic and ladyjessa na may personal prob lng sya na ayaw nya 'kong madamay...actually im also thinking of breaking up with him but right now d ko pa alam pano sya haharapin..

[Allyn]

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wow..9 years na palau kau..

wag mo muna sya ibreak..for sure meron syang malalim na dahilan..

atleast nalaman mo na he still love you..na hindi namn sya nagbago..

iparamdam mo sa kanya aNdyAN ka lang lagi para sa kanya..na pwede nyang ishare mga problems nya sau..

dont give up sis.. napakiliit nyaN na daHilan para mag give up ka kumpAra sa pinagsamahan nyo..

ang impOrtante he still loves you and nahihirapan din sya na d muna kau nagkikita kc d ba nagtxt sya na miz ka na nya..

goodluck..

[miss_confused]

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 yeah...i think he's ready to talk to me na...pumunta sya sa bahay kagabi kaya lng wala ako dun..ngtxt sya sa 'kin na gusto nya mkpagkita kaya lng d ako umuwi ng maaga..sabi ng bro ko 3 hours daw nghintay..

tas kaninang umaga he was calling me but i was preparing for work kaya d ko sinagot...i got 15 missed calls from him pero walang message..and i believe mghihintay yun sa'kin sa labas ng ofis mamaya after ng work ko...

ewan ko..d pa ako ready harapin sya...d ko alam ano mangyayari pgkita namin..wish me luck nlng...hehe

[Allyn]

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be ready...hehe

baka may problem sya and need nya help mo..

goodLuck..

pOst mo na lang ulit qng ano nangyari sa pag uusap nyo..

aabangan q..hehe

[♥ tOXiC ♥]

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goodluck sis update us

[miss_confused]

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hehe...eto na update mga sis..

ngkausap na kami last nyt...ng explain nman sya...pagod lng tlga sya during those times...and he assured me nasa bahay lng sya after work yung mga tym na yun..and i believe him... i know him too well na so i felt the sincerity..

i told him everything id been through..sinabi ko sa kanya lahat ano ang na feel ko and that i felt i was betrayed..

tas nung sinabi ko sa kanya na i feel may ibang girl sya, dun sya umiyak...d daw nya expect na yun ang naiisip ko..ako lng daw babae sa buhay nya wala ng iba..he admitted nman na kasalanan nya kasi d nya na explain ng maayos...

nahihiya daw kc sya sabihin sa'kin na bored na sya that time...ayaw daw nya saktan feelings ko..

natatawa ako kc 3 days ko syang iniiwasan..d ko sinasagot mga tawag and txt nya tas pg pumupunta sya sa bahay, d ako umuuwi..dun ako natutulog sa friend ko...tas nung nagkita kami finally, niyakap nya 'ko ng mahigpit tas hinalikan ako sa harap ng mga tao sa bahay..nandun pa yung father ko...kakahiya tlga..huhuhu..sabi nya miss na miss na daw nya 'ko...

tas nagpropose sya sa 'kin the second time..sabi nya mamamanhikan daw sila this december and tuloy daw wedding namin next year..lolz..

at ako naman ang nagpakipot ngayon...sabi ko sa kanya im too hurt and ako naman ang hihingi ng space..iyak sya ng iyak kasi tama na daw almost 3 weeks na di kami nagkita..baka d daw nya makayanan...hehe..

well i guess thats it for now...what matters is na settle na namin yun..nawala na lahat doubts ko...good thing is mas naging love namin isat-isa..

thanks sa lahat ng mga advices...and gud luck sa mga lovelyf nyo mga sis...think positive lng and be patient to wait for the right one..God will definitely give you the best...

[Allyn]

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parang telenovela ah..hehe


we're all happy here for you sis..

swerte mO namn sa guy..hehe

marami pa kayan ganun ngaun?

goodluck..

[noa.ng]

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hm, ganyan ngyari samin ng GF ko, nung nagwo2rk ako, and studyin at the same time... maybe he's just too stressed ganun kasi nararamdaman ko non e, mahal ko GF ko pero stressed lng ako maxado so i cant give her enough time

[LOKO]

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i hate cool off.. parang d na kac kau nun.. nakakaasar.. hiwalay kung hiwalay nlang..