advice po pls.

[labhim]

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hi.
can i have some advice ?

here it goes :

recently, i have this suitor of mine n ndi q iniexpect n manliligaw skn. as in ! classmate q xa and xa ung tipong tahimik and
nakkipag-usap s mga close ln nea. ngng close qme last school year and mas ngng close qme this school year. lge q kcng ginugulo ung
buhok nea. he has a good hairstyle kc. ang lgueng hawak nun salamin. haha

aun, 3 weeks ago. ngtxt xa s akn and ask me where i am. i told him that i wasn't on d house. he then said to me that theres something
he wants to talk about with me. i told him that just tell it thru txt. so he did. it goes like this "kpag niligawan b qta, mei pag-asa aq?"
i was shocked that time. sbe q s qnea, "trip mu q ? haha walang gnyanan." tpus sbe nea "cryoso aq nu."

he started courting me last aug 2. it's been two weeks. grabe, ibang'2 xa. tlgang ndi q aakalain n magccryoso xa.
uala kc s personality nea ung magcryoso lalo n s babae. he's handsome p nmn ska mlakas tlga ang dating.
actually, he is the reprensentative for MR. BULPRISA. and i'm the representative for MS. BULPRISA.
so, partner qme. kea lalo qmeng ngng close. lalo n during our practice. cnusundo nea pq and hnahatid gmit ung motor nea.
stroll p nga mnsan. hehe

this past few days, he's been so serious tlga. recently, bday ng classmate nmn so cnundo nea aq. tpus umalis muna xa.
as i've said before, it was a bday party so may inuman. and unfortunately, tnamaan aq. tpus bgla xang dumating.
then my classmates said "patay k ngaun, anjan n xa. bwal k n uminum". i just stared at him. tpus tumabi xa s isa qng classmate.
i feel so dizzy so i stand up and go outside to refresh myself. umupo aq s isang motor (mrami kc motor n nkparada. s mga classmates q)
then prang umiikot paningin q. sumunod xa skn s labas. aun, he ask me if i'm ok. i said yes although i'm not. sbe nea, "mei tama k
n ata ee. nhi2lo k n ee." sbe q, "aus ln aq." tpus dumating ung classmate q. tnanung nea tuloy ung classmate q qng marami daw b qng
ininum. what do you expect ? binuking aq ng classmate q. haha he then said to me n ihahatid nea nq pauwi. nasermunan pq n dpat
d ndaw nea q hnatid/cnama dun. that was 6:30 pm. sbe q ayoko pang umuwi. cguro mga 7pm ndn un n nkumbinse nea qng umuwi.
hnatid nea q ng motor. he grabbed my hands and put it around him, bka daw kc mhulog aq. inalalayan nea tlga aq.
buti nga d xa mbilis mgdrive that time kc tlgang mbilis xa qng magmotor. grabe tlga. nung nsa haws n qme, nagthank you aq.
nsa loob nq ng gate, sbe q "cge n, umalis k na." sbe nea, "pumasok k na muna." so i turned around. tpus sbe nea "ndi n ean mauulit."
i ignore him nln. aun.

now, is this enough para mapatunayan qng seryoso xa ?
pls help.

[antonete]

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kng seryoso cia ipapakita nia sau na may gusto cia sau...

[Serenoa]

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i would say yes. start na yan ng pagiging seryoso and now he is showing you how he would care for someone that he loves.

[p@nth♣r@]

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Ang alam ko ganyan talaga ang mga gentleman lalo na't manliligaw mo pa...

Siguro sa ngayon, seryoso siya sayo...Ganyan naman talaga sa simula, seryoso....pero kung may feelings ka rin sa kanya bakit di mo siya subukang sagutin? Nasa pagdadala lang naman yan ng relasyon malay niyo magwowork relasyon niyo...

Di naman masamang magtiwala eh...kaya subukan mo...

Para naman minsan sumaya ka kahit minsan lang...

[labhim]

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i would say yes. start na yan ng pagiging seryoso and now he is showing you how he would care for someone that he loves.

sana nga. kc prang nafafall nq s qnea.
tnx po ng mrami. he very much caring ngaun. saka tlgang cnasbe nea skn qng
anu ung gusto neang sabihin. inlab nba aq ?

[mchristy]

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not yet.... kc its too early pah... pro be careful kc magkakalase kau... bka umabot ung tym na pagcchan mo... and you will say that ndi pla... hehehehe,,,, ingats....

[Serenoa]

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sana nga. kc prang nafafall nq s qnea.
tnx po ng mrami. he very much caring ngaun. saka tlgang cnasbe nea skn qng
anu ung gusto neang sabihin. inlab nba aq ?

maybe. but as a girl you should always test the guy kung talagang deserving siya. do not just commit and fall with anyone because you feel that you are falling for him na. always open your eyes and look for his good sides and bad sides as well.

[BSPJ TSUKI]

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The answer is in your mind. hndi namin mauutos kung sagutin mo sya o hindi. dahil wala ka namang sinabi nga may gusto ka rin sa knya. kung sasabihin namin nga "sige sagutin mo na sya, pero kaw wala palang feelings sa knya. kawawa naman ang tao kung aasa lang sa iyo."

if you have the feelings for that guy, hndi mo na kailangang humingi ng permeso sa amin. you got the freedom to do what you want basta you know the limits of a relationship lalo na at studyante pa kayo... dont be so hot and aggresive dahil doon karaniwang mgkakamali ang relasyon and lead to separate ways, dahil nga hindi pa handa...

napatunayan mo ang isa lang hndi pa lahat... sana buksan at bigyang daan ang mlawak mong kaisipan.. hindi magpadalusdalus lang... i dont say nga dont try it, i just ask you to know him more better inside the mask that he was hidden.. kahit gwapo o hindi ay nkamaskara pa rin..


gudluck girl... and may God guide you always...  

[labhim]

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The answer is in your mind. hndi namin mauutos kung sagutin mo sya o hindi. dahil wala ka namang sinabi nga may gusto ka rin sa knya. kung sasabihin namin nga "sige sagutin mo na sya, pero kaw wala palang feelings sa knya. kawawa naman ang tao kung aasa lang sa iyo."

if you have the feelings for that guy, hndi mo na kailangang humingi ng permeso sa amin. you got the freedom to do what you want basta you know the limits of a relationship lalo na at studyante pa kayo... dont be so hot and aggresive dahil doon karaniwang mgkakamali ang relasyon and lead to separate ways, dahil nga hindi pa handa...

napatunayan mo ang isa lang hndi pa lahat... sana buksan at bigyang daan ang mlawak mong kaisipan.. hindi magpadalusdalus lang... i dont say nga dont try it, i just ask you to know him more better inside the mask that he was hidden.. kahit gwapo o hindi ay nkamaskara pa rin..


gudluck girl... and may God guide you always... 

tnx po ng mrame. i just want to know ur comments and suggestions.

[labhim]

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hey guys, could give some suggestion para mtest q n he's really serious with me ?
pls ? 

or  give some clues para masbeng serious tlga xa.
pwd po ba ?


TNX PO S MGA TUMUTULONG.

[taongpalaboy]

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masyado pang mabilis para sabihin mo na seryos talaga sya sa balak nya na panliligaw sayo or sa ginagawa nyang panliligaw sayo. just let him do whatever he wants to do para lang maipakita nya na seryos sya sayo and do whatever you want to do and at end of the day evaluate what are this factors that make him likable if not lovable.
sometimes we guys tend to be protective sa mga nililigawan namin but that does not guarantee na seryoso kami so its up to you to evaluate his actions
besides bata pa naman kayo nde pa talaga mga seryoso yan hanap lang ninyo ay mga bf/gf relationships

[varsity]

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mejo kulang ang info .. anu sagot mo sa kanya ng sinabi niya na  "Me pagasa ba ako?" for me its sounds like playing safe. para bang he asking for a hint na hinde siya mababasted.. dapat kung willing siya manligaw ng ceryoso he will not ask you that way kasi iba ang dating nun. and as far as i know kung seryoso talaga siya sayo willing cia manligaw or to take risk kahit na alam niya na mababasted at napakaaga pa para magtanong me pagasa ba ciya?? i usually did that in the middle of courting at hinde sa unang una.. anu ba basis mo na serious siya. even a good friend  can do that to you na ihatid at maging concern sau. and as what uve said siya ung tipong lalaki na hinde nagseseryoso di ba dapat maging cautious ka kasi tinanong ka niya kagad kung me pagasa ba siya? and ilang taon k na ba? nagka bf ka na before kasi it sounds like hinde ka pa masyado aware kng pano maging ceryoso ang mga guy na katulad namin. anyway im not against with ur guy but its my advice na magingat ka kasi parang he's taking advantage of being ur partner in bulprisa sabay ligaw hehehehe, teka anu un bulprisa??

[mchristy]

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hehehehe ganun tlga ung boys... khit 1 bwan pang nangliligaw tatanong agad kc my chance pa pra d ka msktan...

[labhim]

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mejo kulang ang info .. anu sagot mo sa kanya ng sinabi niya na  "Me pagasa ba ako?" for me its sounds like playing safe. para bang he asking for a hint na hinde siya mababasted.. dapat kung willing siya manligaw ng ceryoso he will not ask you that way kasi iba ang dating nun. and as far as i know kung seryoso talaga siya sayo willing cia manligaw or to take risk kahit na alam niya na mababasted at napakaaga pa para magtanong me pagasa ba ciya?? i usually did that in the middle of courting at hinde sa unang una.. anu ba basis mo na serious siya. even a good friend  can do that to you na ihatid at maging concern sau. and as what uve said siya ung tipong lalaki na hinde nagseseryoso di ba dapat maging cautious ka kasi tinanong ka niya kagad kung me pagasa ba siya? and ilang taon k na ba? nagka bf ka na before kasi it sounds like hinde ka pa masyado aware kng pano maging ceryoso ang mga guy na katulad namin. anyway im not against with ur guy but its my advice na magingat ka kasi parang he's taking advantage of being ur partner in bulprisa sabay ligaw hehehehe, teka anu un bulprisa??

BULPRISA - stands for BULacan PRIvate School Association
`labanan po xa ng iba't ibang private schools s bulacan.
academics and other fields.

aun po un.

ask ln po wat would be the sign na he's really serious with me ?
since you're a guy, i think you have an idea, right ?
could you help me ?

[varsity]

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hehehehe ganun tlga ung boys... khit 1 bwan pang nangliligaw tatanong agad kc my chance pa pra d ka msktan...

Yup ok sana kung me napapatunayan ka na or me nagawa ka na or atleast 1month k na nanlligaw at ngtanung ka in the middle of courting ... pero kung magsisimula ka pa lang manligaw tapos babanatan mo ng ganun.. parang negative ang dating di ba..