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« on: August 01, 2009, 10:45:24 AM »


 Smiley hello guys ... just want share about my problem!

        Im in love  so  much inlove  to the wrong guy , how can i get it right?
  
 He's a married man... hindi ko alam bakit ako na inlove sa kanya to tell the truth, naghiwalay kami nang BF ko nang dahil sa kanya... i cant even imagine how could things happend like this... so stupid.. i mean it! it seems im happy with this wrong guy he care so much to me...sometimes i've felt guilty na. I 've ask her bakit nya na gawang ligawan ako na may asawa naman syang tao ..  & he told me hindi daw sya Happy... & i dont know why i felt pity with him...  And now stress na stress ako sa ka iisip pano ko tatapusin...  Alam ko stupid ako, pero mahal ko sya!
 
PLease help me ...
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« on: August 01, 2009, 10:45:24 AM »

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« Reply #1 on: August 01, 2009, 11:27:23 AM »


hhmmmm. my advice would be to avoid having such relationships with married men. 95% of the time they are just making an excuse na "hindi daw sila happy sa marriage", "they married the wrong woman" etc. etc.  but the truth is, they are irresponsible men who does not know how to make marriage work.

let me give you an analogy. -- kapag masyado bang marumi ang bahay mo, are you going to buy a new house or are you going to clean your house? kung iresponsable kang tao, you would rather buy a new house rather clean your mess.

why am i so against married men? because i have a very close friend na babae who is  on the same boat as you. the married man swore na love na love niya yung friend ko, he is very caring, very sweet guy na feeling ng friend ko eh silang dalawa ang destined for each other. Now, anong ang nangyari? Binuntis lang nung married guy yung friend ko tapos iniwan. Sabi ko nga sa iyo, married men who are into having extra marital relationships are irresponsible men of dubious character so i would avoid them like they have AIDS.

ang problema kasi sa inyong mga babae eh you are not using your head. you are always governed by your emotions. kapag feeling mo na love mo ang isang tao eh nagpapaka-gaga naman kayo, kahit alam ninyong mali gusto pa rin ninyong masunod puso ninyo. think first of the consequences.

di ka ba natatakot sa track record ng ganyang tao? yung mga may-record nga sa Presohan eh di tinatanggap sa trabaho eh yun pa kayang married guy na merong record na mahilig sa extra marital relationships. If he did it once, what makes you think na hindi niya kayang gawin yun sa iyo?
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« Reply #1 on: August 01, 2009, 11:27:23 AM »

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« Reply #2 on: August 01, 2009, 11:46:19 AM »


Naramdaman ko na rin yang naramdaman mo ngayon abriana...Sobrang hirap magdesisyon, pati trabaho ko noon naapektuhan...pero still I let him go...why? kasi mahal ko siya...hindi ko kayang makitang nasasaktan ang mga taong nagmamahal sa kanya...ang mga anak niya...at pati siya....kasi mahirap din sa kanya ang magdesisyon...

Ang masabi ko lang..."kung ano ung ayaw mong gawin sayo wag mo ding gawin sa kapwa mo"...

Mahirap sa umpisa, pero kelangan mong gawin...kasi kung hindi man bumalik sa iyo ang karma, sa mga mahal mo naman sa buhay...maatim mo bang magtiis sila sa karma na ikaw ang me gawa? Proud ka bang tawaging kabit? kawawa ang labas mo...

Mahirap, napakahirap kalimutan at iwanan ang taong mahal mo...pero kelangan...kelangan dahil hind siya para sayo... Cool

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« Reply #3 on: August 03, 2009, 01:25:56 PM »


The question is "kung kasalanan mo ba right? and how to make things right?

Ok,, ive been in that situation before, first it is not a sin to fall inlove. Take note of that, kasi sinong tao eh maaring magmahal dahil di naman natuturuan ang puso kung sino gusto mo. My answer is "NO" di mo kasalanan un. But loving a married man and you are well aware in the first place is a SIN. Not only to HIS family but with God....

If you really LOVE HIM you have to set him FREE no matter what. Habang maaga pa putulin mo na yan mahirap makasira ng isang pamilya at ikaw ang UGAT kung bakit nagkakaganun...

Also for the Guy there is no such thing as di siya HAPPY for being married he has to be content on his married life....problem nya un gawan nya ng solusyun...

Hope maliwanagan ka.

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« Reply #4 on: August 03, 2009, 02:27:43 PM »


thank you so much guys!!!
 
 
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« Reply #5 on: August 03, 2009, 02:34:34 PM »


give some advice ... how to move my first step to go through it!
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« Reply #6 on: August 03, 2009, 02:37:05 PM »


^ Putulin mo ang communication niyo... Cool
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« Reply #7 on: August 03, 2009, 02:50:47 PM »


^ Putulin mo ang communication niyo... Cool
di yan ganun kadali.... for me talk to HIM first. Make it clear to him na masama yan ginagawa nyo at ayaw mong makasira ng pamilya.but u have to see to it na kaya mo siyang harapin na di ka na maniniwala sa sasabihin nya.kasi dedepensa at dedepensa yan. kailangan mapigilan mo ang emosyon mo.so the best move is ayusin mo muna sarili mo at ilagay mo sa utak mo na ikaw ang kontrabida sa isang magndang istorya kaya dapat na tumigil ka na.
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« Reply #8 on: August 04, 2009, 10:37:50 AM »


pano yan ... same company kami ibang department nga lang & really need my job... alam nyo guys i really appreciate all the concerns you've done... sana nga lang ganon lang ka easy noh! how i wish.. im always praying naman na sana one day when i wake up wala natong nararamdaman ko & i can go straight na. Minsan nga gusto ko nalang mag bigti.... Kasi na isip ko is it KARMA ... may KARMA ba talaga...? kasi sasabihin ko nato ha! yong papa ko kasi since when i was in grade one iniwan na kami it seems 10 years kaming iniwan dahil sa may iba sya... na isip ko lang KARMA na nga ito!!! Kay saya na nang buhay ko dati nawalang bigla dahil sa kahinaan ko ... ang sama ko na!
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« Reply #9 on: August 21, 2009, 11:38:34 PM »


para sa akin ....iwasan muna cia..kasi kaw din mahihirapan sa bandang huli...
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« Reply #10 on: August 22, 2009, 02:39:23 PM »


hindi mo nmn kasalanan ang nangyari sa buhay mo ngayon
kong mahal mo talaga siya, gagawa ka ng paraan para maiwasan mo siya
kahit magkasama kayo sa iisang kompanya magagawa mong iwasan siya kong gugusthuhin mo
mahirap kasi ang sitwasyon mo ngayon kasi may asawa na siya
kapag nalaman ng mga kasamahan mo sa kompanya na pumatol ka sa kanya
ikaw rin masasaktan, itsitsismis ka nila alam mo na di ba
kaya kong mas maaga iwasan mo na lang siya
pilitin mo ang sarili mo na hindi mo siya iisipin
kaya mo yan gurl kaw pa
lakasan mo lang loob mo
malulutas mo rin yang problema mo...

gud luck gurl!

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« Reply #11 on: August 22, 2009, 04:14:55 PM »


kong sa kanta pa!

kasalanan ko ba kong iniibig kita di ko naman sinasadya ang mahalin kita....
kasalanan ko ba kong ang nadarama ay ang pag-ibig na wagas...
matitiis ko ba kong mahal kitang talaga....

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« Reply #12 on: August 22, 2009, 07:40:48 PM »


acceptance...effective yan...and kung deteminado ka tlga na kalimutan xia...magagawa mu yan...just pray...make urself busy...
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« Reply #13 on: August 22, 2009, 07:48:11 PM »


natamaan ko jan sa kanta mo darv..
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« Reply #14 on: August 23, 2009, 09:23:19 AM »


hehehhe,
ganun natamaan ka
kahit nga aq natamaan ikaw pa
haizzzz
pag-ibig nga nmn

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