How to be a good conversationalist

[Coo_Guy]

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may nakuha akong mp3 about sa pagiging magaling na conversationalist i'll post it later for the benifit of forum members.

[Barbie-One]

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my advice sa mga guys.

first dapat confident kayo kung magsalita at huwag yung nerbiyoso.
second observe your body language. huwag yung patingin tingin sa gilid dapat focus sa kausap niyo.

[fox]

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my advice sa mga guys.

first dapat confident kayo kung magsalita at huwag yung nerbiyoso.
second observe your body language. huwag yung patingin tingin sa gilid dapat focus sa kausap niyo.

agree, show them who you really are, dont pretend to be someone whos not you.
i recommend the book "Manner for Growing Up" by Julie Yap Daza. its a good table book

[batong puso]

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for me is listen listen listen...ask lang about her or him and show your interested inde puro ikaw lang boring yun

[Icebox]

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help naman kasi marunong naman ako maglisten kaso mistulan na kong patay na bata, lahat sila nabobored sakin. kaya siguro stuck ako sa pagiging loser. kahit ano d ako makapag open ng topic o d ko makuha interes nila. help na aman, pano ba?

[batong puso]

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you really cant open a topic dude pag inde sila interesado mahirap man tanggapin pero kailangan mo pa intayin na tanongin nila eh unless nasa bonding momments kayo na kaiangan nyo na mag open ng topic im sure you can do that naman men.

[HappyBoy]

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well siguro just let her do the talking and take it from there

[Ms. Petix]

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--i need advice din..kasi before nung ng jajobhunting plang akO.. hanggang final interview lang akO.. ewan ko ba.. i noticed..mxado din atah akong kampante magsalita.. totoo kc ung the more u talk,the more mistakes u make...

[tempgirl]

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help naman kasi marunong naman ako maglisten kaso mistulan na kong patay na bata, lahat sila nabobored sakin. kaya siguro stuck ako sa pagiging loser. kahit ano d ako makapag open ng topic o d ko makuha interes nila. help na aman, pano ba?

it's easy man, just ask anything about her...

hobbies/interests then if parehas kayo then yun iopen na mo like "ah talaga you also go bar hoppin? me too! blahblah" mga ganon hehehehe

--i need advice din..kasi before nung ng jajobhunting plang akO.. hanggang final interview lang akO.. ewan ko ba.. i noticed..mxado din atah akong kampante magsalita.. totoo kc ung the more u talk,the more mistakes u make...

paanong kampante?

[L.U.N.A]

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just be true to urself... hindi kelangan ng malinis n opinyon, ng malalim n paliwanag n ikaw lng ang may kakayanang makaabot n pwede nmn ipaliwanag s simpleng bagay.. dont just talk, listen...

[ghost27]

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hndi rin ako vocal pag dating sa mga gnyan haist, sobrang shy ko pagka kasama ko girl na type ko tsk tsk stuck up na ako lalo na pgka kasama na nya yung mga friends nya wla na dedbol na si ghost
pero napag isip2 ko dpat pala tlagang kausapin mo yung taong gusto mo, magaling lang kasi ako sa pgkuha ng cp number eh hehe tpos ligaw2 moment na dun haha

[Probinsiano]

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An empty can makes a lot of noise
turn off yan sa mga babae
blah blah blah ng hindi interesting sa babae
ibig kong sabihin

[josh0602]

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Well, what I do is to blurt out any topic or joke and the rest will follow already. For one instance, I opened up a topic regarding this particular tv series that she also watches. From there, everything became spontaneous and I was not already afraid of cracking jokes and going into some deeper topics such as love.

[Desiderata]

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In order for someone to be a good conversationalist dapat marunong muna siya makinig sa kausap niya. Wag ka magblab. Talk with sense. Kilalanin mo yung kausap mo and from there start conversing with her/him sa topics na you think may interest sya. Give and take yon. You let her talk while you listen and vice versa then makipag-interact ka sa kanya based sa mga nakukwento niya. Good conversationalists are also very spontaneous so dapat hindi parang slam book style ang usapan.

[ako_si_alice_na_malandi]

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AKO SI ALICE NA MALANDI. NAGPAPAKANTORCH AKO KAHIT KANINO KAHIT NA MENOPAUSAL NA AKO!!